00:01:49 Joli Knott: Hi everyone! 00:02:01 Angela Stringhini: Hello dearest all and Joanna 00:02:19 Alta Felix: Forgiveness 00:02:46 amy palatnick: projects coming to fruition 00:02:47 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): Breakthrough with my coaching buddy, MaryAnn McNulty--love her! 00:02:55 AJ Frenzel: Being seen on video 00:02:56 Jen Youngquist: Showing up when it's hared 00:02:57 Angela Stringhini: I want to celebrate my last coaching with Catlyn that I am honouring who I am. 00:02:58 Joli Knott: Creating a talk for the Federation of Holistic Therapists! 00:03:19 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Being aware of resistances and finding ways to come around it 00:03:20 Sophie Jane Hardy: i made a big breakthrough with the pattern of fearing causing harm to clients… I connected to my integrity and love in a new way. 00:04:15 Brenda: Moved my office 00:05:07 Deva Munay: Celebration: Gaining clarity on what my next steps are in my professional and personal development! 00:06:22 Rachel Alva (she/they): I’m celebrating recalibrating my energy output for this season. 00:06:29 Runa: Thank you Joanna, this is so me right now 00:07:00 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Celebration: Giving myself permission to focus on two things in my business instead of the 5 i’m dreaming of! 00:09:05 Lisa Scott: Wonderful reminders - thank you Joanna 00:09:11 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): a little reminder of the ways in which needs can be met? 00:10:53 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): great, thanks! 00:13:21 Sophie Jane Hardy: The more I relax into curiosity, the more I can hold their intention in mind and craft the next best question 00:13:35 Deva Munay: Questions are can openers, and good questions are fundamental in creating transformation. 00:13:46 Sophie Jane Hardy: Can openers - love that! 00:14:01 Randa Sultan: I'm recognizing the resistance piece with others and trying to figure out how to move through that with breakthrough questioning... rather than my usual "how does it feel" etc... it is a stretch! 00:14:02 Joli Knott: Questions are such a great way to break new ground—explore new territory that we might not have otherwise visited if I were just consulting…. 00:14:29 Barbara Daughter: Yes @Randa … hearing between the lines 00:14:32 Angela Stringhini: I am finding really challenging to make the “right” questions, to figure out how to use the appropriated category. My questions used to be in clinical setting, to find diagnosis, and so on. And I am finding challenge to swap from consulting questions to sacred depths coaching questions. 00:15:06 Joli Knott: I hear you @Angela! 00:15:09 Rachel Alva (she/they): The most important thing is the client’s response and engagement with the questions. There’s a shared responsibility that takes off the pressure to ask the question perfectly 00:17:23 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Am amazed at how questions appear even though I can be quite blank as they speak their intention in the beginning. Am using the 'right’ to pause and let the words find their way. 00:18:35 Joli Knott: That’s really helpful—thanks for asking the question, Layne! 00:18:55 Layne Mosler: @Joli 💜 00:19:09 Rachel Alva (she/they): YES @Sidsel. I’m embracing the permission to pause 00:19:09 Barbara Daughter: thanks @Layne 00:19:52 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): @Deva CAN OPENERS--yes! 00:19:52 Joli Knott: Love that @Sidsel! 00:20:09 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I find the questions are helping me to shape the session and hold a stronger container, much more than before. In focusing on the intention and then continuing to reference it internally, it’s helping me to allow the questions through to help us get to where they need/ want to go. And I LOVE watching them find the wisdom within themselves and their bodies as they answer the questions. 00:20:56 Aiyana McKenzie: Beautiful, Kelly! 00:20:57 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): “Permission to pause” - sounds like a course title! 🥰 @Rachel and @Joli 00:21:55 Lisa Scott: Yes Kelly - watching the wisdom from within the client come forward is truly powerful 00:24:35 amy palatnick: In Nia, “spirit” is defined as “our uniqueness” which can help people who don’t identify as spiritual. 00:25:51 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): @Amy, love that. I'm going to try that on for clients--their uniqueness 00:25:59 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Love that, Amy. 00:26:15 Angela Stringhini: thank you Aiyana 00:26:38 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): ❤️to you, Aiyana 00:27:11 Tina Dowdy: thank you for volunteering Aiyana <3 00:27:38 Barbara Daughter: thanks for volunteering Aiyana! 00:31:12 amy palatnick: honoring what is <3 00:33:07 Barbara Daughter: witnessing with love, Aiyana! 00:39:36 Joli Knott: Sending you so much love from afar, Aiyana 💙 00:39:42 Annelise Pesa: AIYANA ❤️ 00:40:06 AJ Frenzel: *A miracle on the inside* 00:40:28 Lisa Scott: Internal miracle = to feel good about myself…even though x 00:40:29 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): I'm sending you so much love, Aiyanna! <3 <3 <3 00:40:44 Vlada Tomova: oh Ayana, I am right there with you 🧚🏼♥️♥️♥️ 00:40:53 Brenda: So appreciate your vulnerability Aiyana 💖 00:43:02 Wendy: Thank you for being so vulnerable, Aiyana. Sending you lots of love. <3 00:44:01 Aiyana McKenzie: To everyone here: Thank you SO much for your loving, supportive comments, witnessing and holding 00:45:37 Maria's iPad (2): Wow Ayana! You are so brave and so put together despite everything that is going on! Thank you for sharing and being so open. Sending you swedish Viking hugs 00:46:44 Deva Munay: This is where I would want to drop into consoling (noticing the difference here that it is neither consulting or coaching). I would want to offer healing, compassion, and the space to be with spirit. Her Breath. Offering Singing bowls and an exercise in toning. REcognizing that sound moves energy and matter. What is the sound of your anger? What is the sound of the inner miracle? How can you work with toning to move the energy of anger out and anchor the inner peace in? 00:47:43 Angela Stringhini: Aiyana, sending so much love …you are miracle in all this storm 00:48:41 Sophie Jane Hardy: What is the sound of your inner miracle - that is so beautiful Deva. 00:50:23 Vlada Tomova: Such a lovely way to weave it all together! 00:51:06 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): I would want to spend some time helping Aiyana to simply regulate her nervous system. Like @Deva, I would use my other tools to help her calm and ground. And like @Barbara, helping her to identify physical sensations is a huge part of that. 00:52:36 Barbara Daughter: oh that is so rich, @Amy! 01:02:32 Maria's iPad (2): I wanted to ask about the “wanting to give up” Ayana mentioned and what that means to her. Would that be inappropriate and totally out of place? 01:02:36 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Wow @Kelly that resonated over here 01:03:28 Barbara Daughter: deep @Kelly 01:04:12 Barbara Daughter: @Maria … ask about that voice to voice please 01:06:57 amy palatnick: i like this question Maria! what would it feel like to just give up? <3 01:07:18 AJ Frenzel: What is something that you could give up? 01:07:27 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Or let go of? 01:07:44 Jen Youngquist: Not give up...but surrender. How can she surrender more or what can she surrender? 01:08:04 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): collapse versus surrender 01:08:05 Melissa Kozma: I wanted to ask Aiyana what her source of strength has been, given that she has overcome and walked through so much, there is definitely a power there I want to hear more about. 01:08:44 AJ Frenzel: Where are the places that you do have support available to help you bear one or two of the burdens you are carrying? 01:08:44 Barbara Daughter: my former education as a social worker has me looking at this as a potential “red flag” 01:08:55 Barbara Daughter: How do you navigate that? 01:09:03 amy palatnick: exactly—check in about suicidality. 01:09:16 Joli Knott: I was wondering this, too.... 01:10:05 amy palatnick: “who could be in this situation and feel OK” could get a client an ally or image of a way to navigate. 01:15:24 Sophie Jane Hardy: Q: What if they don’t have access to other resources? 01:16:07 amy palatnick: hotlines! 01:16:11 Maria's iPad (2): Thanks Joanna! This was even more helpful 01:17:48 amy palatnick: great question Layne! 01:17:54 Barbara Daughter: that’s powerful @Layne! 01:18:34 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): So beautiful, Layne. 01:19:17 Melissa Kozma: Yes….great to use the cat metaphor as a tool, the same drowning cat also has "nine lives" and always lands on it's feet. 01:20:10 Layne Mosler: Thank you Amy, Barbara, and Kelly. And thank you Aiyana for opening your heart to us. 01:21:03 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Love that idea of the imagination holding the contradiction, Joli. One of my teachers speaks of how we hold the opposites - feels similar. Acknowledging all the different truths we can hold powerfully within us. 01:21:10 Sophie Jane Hardy: That was excellent Joli! 01:21:18 Layne Mosler: Lovely and deep, Joli. 01:21:33 Barbara Daughter: wise perspective @Joli 01:22:10 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Such an important question… 01:22:36 Joli Knott: @Kelly @Sophie @Layne 🙏🏽💙 01:23:09 Sophie Jane Hardy: How can you know if its appropriate tom coach them or not? 01:23:19 Barbara Daughter: thank you for asking this question @Tina 01:23:33 Joli Knott: Thanks, @Barbara 💜 01:23:57 amy palatnick: @sophie you will probably know if you don’t feel comfortable working with the material a client is presenting 01:24:29 amy palatnick: or if you notice a lot of trauma signals 01:25:08 Sophie Jane Hardy: @amy, I think perhaps due to some past experiences I’ve had, I’m not sure i can trust my own knowing and instinct. I’d love to know a clear set of signs to look out for 01:25:47 amy palatnick: @sophie, ask joanna? xoxo 01:25:54 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): So true, @Amy. And also if the client has a hard time staying on track, staying focused, getting consistent results. Also if they keep insisting on "telling the story" or experiencing a trauma pull, you won't be able to make much progress. Important to be able to recognize this and know when it has nothing to do with your coaching and refer them out. 01:28:10 AJ Frenzel: Will we have a chance to hear from Aiyana about these questions? 01:28:28 Brenda: What do you mean by inner boundaries? 01:30:29 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Deepest honoring to you, Aiyana. Thank you for your courage and openness here. ❤️ 01:31:01 Sophie Jane Hardy: Aiyana, you’ve so generously shared, and its been such a fruitful session as a result - thank you from my heart. 01:31:06 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): and thank you to all for your amazing questions and reflections - I learn from all of you and am so grateful. 01:31:42 Barbara Daughter: helpful observation @Michelyn 01:31:48 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Championing you, Aiyana! 01:31:54 Sophie Jane Hardy: YES! 01:32:04 Tina Dowdy: so much learning today... thank you Aiyana and for all the questions. 01:32:10 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Holy goosebumps and power in that, Aiyana! 01:32:13 amy palatnick: Aiyana, i love hearing this passion and anger “get out of me!” 01:32:19 Runa: Yes 01:32:29 AJ Frenzel: “Get out of ME” 01:32:35 Annelise Pesa: ❤️ 01:32:46 Wendy: So feel your strength and power here Aiyana. 01:33:20 Barbara Daughter: that’s so helpful @Joanna (re: homework) 01:33:32 Joli Knott: Love seeing the fire rising up in you as we finish, Aiyana! 01:33:43 Barbara Daughter: thank you so much for all your sharing & vulnerability @Aiyana … so much love to you! 01:33:45 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Thank you, everyone! 01:33:50 Melissa Kozma: Thank you, Aiyana ❤ Sending you love 💗 01:33:50 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): So beautiful and such deep learning - thank you, Joanna - and all. Amazing amazing amazing. 01:33:55 Vlada Tomova: ♥️♥️♥️♥️ for everyone’s wisdom and heart! 01:33:55 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): THANK YOU AIYANA & JOANNA! 01:33:56 Nell Reid: Thank you so much Aiyana. Sending you hugs and strength. Got so much from this call. 01:33:59 Joli Knott: Thank you!! 01:34:01 Joli Knott: Bye!