00:02:04 sidsel: I’m in our basement storage room to leave room for the family. And willing to be on camera;) 00:07:53 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I’m so looking forward to this! Just did kiddo drop off and pulled off into the parking area to do this beautiful deepening in. I’ll go off camera until I’m home and then join on video. So happy to be with you all! 00:08:22 Joli Knott: So glad we’re here together, Kelly! 00:08:57 Sophie Jane Hardy: Loving your basement and your car Kelly and Sisdel :) 00:11:05 sidsel: <3 00:12:28 Aiyana : I’m here today because I feel inadequate and scared to ‘put myself out there’ as a practitioner. 00:12:31 Barbara Daughter: when doing something new, I always want to have as much knowledge as possible to bolster my confidence 00:12:46 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): To deepen my coaching skills front and center and not as part of my modalities. 00:13:01 Annelise Pesa: I am because it is a wonderful opportunity learn more 00:13:16 Sophie Jane Hardy: To find my confidence as I transition from consultant to coach. I feel the deep alignment of this role, and it also feels frightening 00:13:21 AJ Frenzel: Part of what brings me here is adding as much structure & connection to my days as I can in the lonely confusing business building days 00:13:21 Wendy: Agree with Barbara. Brand new to this and soaking it all in. 00:13:22 Brenda: Because I am a brand new coach and want to learn. And absorb the information 00:13:30 sidsel: Tentative is me now - having doubts about first steps, am at a threshold and pausing here for more listening, this is perfect for it. Am nervous, excited, stern, decided, fresh, all at once! 00:14:00 Lara Storm: I have a general idea of how to incorporate a couching practice into my current business, but I’m struggling to build the structure, as well as feeling some anxiety about putting myself out there. 00:14:15 Brenda: Ditto as Aiyana - scared and lacking confidence as a coach. Starting a new career. 00:14:32 Vlada Tomova: Curiosity, wanting to see what comes up for me, be in a community of coaches 00:14:36 Anna Robinson: I have been wanting to launch my coaching offerings for a loooong time now. And I’m at a place where I feel that I have all the skills and support to move forward, but I keep holding myself back from sharing what I do. And I feel really ready and desiring to move through that. 00:14:59 Sophie Jane Hardy: Coaching feels more ‘naked’ somehow. More tender, vulnerable… real, alive, “dangerous” 00:15:35 Melissa Kozma: I in re-emergence after a break, to 'begin again' and train further. Still a novice in having a breadth of clients. I always feel new - not sure if this feeling of trepidation will ever go! 00:15:44 Jacque Alderete: Im here because I wanted to fully show up for all that’s available through this program. I’m also sending a desire to sit and understand my fear about my business 00:15:54 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Having doubts about this path and whether being a coach is going to feel draining & exhausting. 00:15:55 MaryAnn: I’m here to expand and deepen my coaching capacity, be curious as there is so much to learn and improve upon, and reconnect with a deeper level of both coaching and myself as part of the equation. 00:16:15 Sophie Jane Hardy: I have that doubt too Isa. 00:16:31 Brenda: Jacque — yes I want to receive all that is available from this program and understand my fear about my business 00:16:52 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Sophie Jane...Sending you hugs! It's a big one for me! <3 00:17:34 Annelise Pesa: @MaryAnn love how you are expressing your desire 00:17:40 Aiyana : I relate, Isa and Sophie! 00:18:04 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Aiyana...<3 <3 <3 00:21:18 Anna Robinson: Can you repeat the question please? I had to step away for a second! 00:21:31 Joanna Lindenbaum (she/her): o What are your fears and concerns about working with clients? 00:21:52 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): That I will become overburdened. I can take on too much responsibility so am strengthening my boundaries muscle. 00:21:58 Layne Mosler: I’m afraid I won’t be able to help my clients reach their goals, and I’m afraid my filters will keep me from seeing something fundamental and/or cause harm. 00:22:05 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): I sure did! Ha. 00:22:17 AJ Frenzel: My whole list is fear of me not showing up 00:22:26 Annelise Pesa: My fears is the marketing side, the getting clients, and at the same time is also time: I am one man shop and its hard to follow coaching practice, marketing, delivering and growing as a coach whist having a onyx family 00:22:27 Jacque Alderete: Current fears: that I’m not going to find enough of them, that when I do find enough of them that I won’t be able to handle all that comes at me (overwhelm), that I won’t be able to meet my own needs as their needs take priority, that I won’t be able to get them the results that they want, that I’m just swindling them out of their money because I’m selling snake oil 00:22:46 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): That I'll have the perpetually resistant client that tells me I'm full of it & is combative. That I will be too soft or too hard on them. 00:23:20 Brenda: That I don’t have the skills and am not competent to do this professionally How will I market as I hate marketing That I am not good enough That I won’t make it That I won’t have time to devote to building a business 00:23:22 Joanna Lindenbaum (she/her): o How has the fear & concern been impacting you (inner and outer)? 00:24:00 Deva Munay: 1. Not getting the breakthroughs and transformational results that I want/wish for my clients. 2. Adding another thing to my schedule 3. Raising my rates to make it feel like a good financial investment 00:24:24 Annelise Pesa: Stress, lack of support from a team, at time lack of bouncing ideas off, inconsistency of coach flow, inconsistency of results at times, 00:24:43 Annelise Pesa: Cash flow not coach flow ! 00:24:49 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): My fears of overresponsibility have held me back from marketing. All my clients are referrals and word of mouth. Slow growth when I really want more—maybe! 00:24:54 Jacque Alderete: Inner: I feel anxiety, not taking necessary action steps, paralyzing fear, doubting my abilities Outer: I’m not building my business, I’m running away over and over again 00:25:00 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): INNER LEVEL: I'm wondering whether I'm cut out to be a coach or any career directly working with people. OUTER LEVEL: I'm not seeking clients and was thinking of not doing so until after the program is over...so I can take it all in. 00:25:11 Aiyana : Current concerns about working with clients: Number one is my health. I have been VERY unstable/unreliable. Even in this moment, I have a level 8 migraine and feel sick to my stomach. 2) I am concerned that I am a bad example since I am not well myself. Physically, I haven’t had the energy to follow through on the creative inspirations that flow to me or the great opportunities that emerge. Emotionally, I still fall into stress, grief, and exhaustion, which feels like an inadequate example/lead 00:26:22 Sophie Jane Hardy: I really hear you Aiyana. I have my own version of those concerns. Sending love as you tend to the migraine and nausea. 00:26:24 Aiyana : Inner level: feel sad, worried that I am wasting my life/not living my purpose. Outer Level: not reaching out for clients, not requesting enough money, hiding, ‘playing small,’ holding back, letting opportunities pass by 00:26:40 Aiyana : Thank you, Sophie. You’re such a sweetie 00:27:08 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): AJ...I start googling Zoology jobs. Haha. 00:27:09 Melissa Kozma: Concerns that my clients have a different impression of me - that I am more 'seasoned' than I am and I have to bridge that gap. 00:27:26 Joli Knott: @Aiyana—honouring your dedication and tenacity to be here despite feeling so poorly….sending love 💜 00:28:06 Aiyana : A deeper fear is that if I really ‘show up’ and share what is moving through me, that I will be ‘seen’ and then ‘cast out’/attacked 00:28:09 Annelise Pesa: @Aiyana, sending love and honour your courage and beauty 00:28:35 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Hi beautiful people! Could someone please do me a big favor and send me the chat via email? I just got onto my computer (after driving while being on the phone) and can’t access the chat from before. I’d so appreciate it! kelnataraj@gmail.com 00:29:06 Sophie Jane Hardy: I’ll send it Kelly 00:29:16 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Thanks, Sophie Jane! 00:29:28 Melissa Kozma: @AJ I relate so much 00:29:29 Aiyana : @Annelise, thank you 🥰 00:30:49 Aiyana : @Joli, thank you ☺️ So great you are here too! 00:30:56 Barbara Daughter: @Aiyana - witnessing with love & compassion 00:30:59 Aiyana : AJ, I RELATE! 00:32:05 Gregg Berman: Many of my current fears are will i ever figure out how to market myself, how do i share my authentic voice in my marketing, how do i find clients and even when i do find them i have an offer for my EFT practice but feel unsure how to share what i offer and package it for a coaching practice. Again that relates to finding my authentic voice and then where do i put that voice for visibility. 00:32:48 Brenda: Aiyana - I so relate to everything you write even though I don’t have your same challenges. Honoring and appreciating your vulnerability and honesty 00:32:54 Joli Knott: @Gregg—I completely relate to this—thank you for sharing 00:33:03 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): AJ, witnessing and honoring you. Thank you for sharing so openly about this. I’ve been there and walked the path with others as well. 00:34:19 Brenda: @Gregg - relate to this too. 00:34:20 Aiyana : Thank you for sharing, Greg. Witnessing you and relating to your share 00:34:53 Aiyana : AJ, depression has been a lifelong journey for me. Your share touches me. Thank you! 00:34:55 Wendy: Sending lots of love to you both, AJ and Aiyana. <3 00:36:17 Brenda: AJ — your share helps me understand my deeply depressed daughter. 00:36:36 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Greg, I so relate to what you share - it’s the place I feel I flail around in a big way. 00:36:41 sidsel: Thank you, AJ, helpful over here too! 00:36:44 Joli Knott: The struggle around depression has been real for me, too—sending much love and strength to everyone who has encountered this...Thanks for your vulnerable share, @AJ 00:36:54 sidsel: And thanks for everyones shares and honesty 00:37:09 Barbara Daughter: AJ - beautiful & vulnerable share. Honoring you <3 00:37:28 Wendy: AJ - you are a beautiful human and phenomenal coach! Lucky to have you as my partner.<3 00:38:01 Barbara Daughter: so relate to that “feeling different” Anna 00:38:12 Aiyana : Oh my goodness, Anna, thank you for your share! Resonates! 00:38:31 Joli Knott: OMG—I SO relate to this, Anna—the inaction piece! 00:38:48 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I can completely relate, Anna - thank you for bringing words to it! 00:38:58 AJ Frenzel: Absolutely there with you Anna about the inaction and hopping around. 00:38:59 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Are you all being a mirror today? ;) 00:39:05 Brenda: Anna — so relate to the fear that things will never change 00:39:22 Melissa Kozma: @Anna - You spoke to so much of my experience, too 🤍 00:39:44 AJ Frenzel: Thank you Wendy and everyone for the warmth and support and witnessing 00:40:53 AJ Frenzel: OH yes I’m also a middle child and so relate 00:44:37 MaryAnn: Challenge: I’m in the middle of repositioning my entire business, and unclear on what I want it to look like, and whether I can make the shift in a way that I don’t have to recreate my entire body of work. Impact on me: I’m in a holding pattern…don’t have the clarity to make decisions that will open the way to forward movement. It’s frustrating. I really want to find my way back to a joyful, fulfilling practice and it feels pretty far out of reach right now. And…I’m lovingly acknowledging that I’ve spent the past few years working through some heavy trauma and perhaps it’s all unfolding at a pace I can handle right now. It’s likely that my healing journey will inform the future of my coaching work…this feels like a piece of the puzzle though I’m not yet sure where it fits in. 00:46:20 AJ Frenzel: Goosebumps and tears with you Anna 00:46:50 Melissa Kozma: @MaryAnn So beautifully articulated - I relate so much 00:46:53 MaryAnn: Beautiful Anna, I so relate to all that. Witnessing your heart as the best thing about you! 00:47:01 Aiyana : My heart was always the best part about me and I want that for everyone— SO GOOD , Anna! I fully relate and your share touches me deeply. Thank you! 00:47:04 Joli Knott: @MaryAnn Love your acknowledgement that you’ve been doing some heavy lifting in your life and that perhaps you are flowing at the pace you need to flow through. 00:47:41 Jacque Alderete: Yes! To both 00:47:45 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): My heart was always the best part of me. That’s a writer downer. Thank you for thank Anna. 00:47:49 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Anna, so much love to you. Gorgeous heart you have. Thank you for sharing this best part of you… 00:47:55 Joli Knott: @Anna—such a beautiful share—thank you and sending hugs 💜 00:48:30 Aiyana : Witnessing you, MaryAnn. Loving compassion to you. Cheering for you too 00:48:37 MaryAnn: @Joli, thank you. I’ve accepted the journey. I feel resistant to accepting the pace. LOL 00:48:59 Anna Robinson: Thank you all for your words of love and support ❤️ 00:49:53 Jacque Alderete: Anna, I absolutely loved your beautiful share. Thank you for sharing your deeply sacred heart ❤️ 00:50:22 Joli Knott: @MaryAnn—accepting the pace can be SO hard….I tend to liken it to being a liminal space where we aren’t who we were before anymore, but not yet the person we are striving forward to be! Stay steady on your beautiful path 💜 00:51:05 Brenda: Anna — appreciating your share — it brought me tears. 00:51:53 Jacque Alderete: I hear what you’re saying about being bold in the marketing messages, but it still brings loads of fear to me 00:52:03 Wendy: Anna, thank you for your share...beautiful soul and heart... 00:52:13 Joli Knott: It’s heartening to know that I’m not the only one struggling with the expectations and doubts!! 00:53:30 Melissa Kozma: 🧡Aiyana - I admire your tenacity to show up with a migraine. Thank you for being here 00:53:30 Wendy: So agree with you Aiyana! 00:54:10 Joli Knott: So beautifully worded, @Aiyana! 00:54:50 sidsel: Takeway from AJ and Anne: Container can be created in accordance with reality of the life the coach (and not a perfect ideal about being able, capable, shining, succeeding and on it 24/7). I needed that right here and now, thank you:) 00:55:42 Joli Knott: Love that @Sidsel 💜 00:55:53 sidsel: <3 00:55:59 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Yes, yes, yes, Aiyana. So beautiful. Thank you. 00:56:03 Wendy: How inspiring that will be to your clients, Aiyana! 00:56:14 Vlada Tomova: <3 00:56:24 Barbara Daughter: so powerful what you’re sharing Aiyana 00:57:20 Aiyana : ThANK YOU, Barbara, Kelly and Wendy 🥰 00:58:47 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): It's coming to me even more clearly that there really is nothing new in the world. It is so important to bring our own personal journey into our work. Our path informs how we can connect with our clients. We each have a beautiful story and it needs to be shared. 00:59:20 Barbara Daughter: well said @Michelyn 00:59:22 Wendy: So agree, Michelyn! 00:59:26 Gregg Berman: I definitely resonate Aiyana with feeling I don’t have enough of what I am wanting to offer my clients. A part of me knows the fact i struggle is the gift and the key to my being better for my clients and being able to get them. And part of me fears being a fraud because i don’t yet have it figured out. 00:59:31 Joli Knott: Love that share @Jacque—being whole and complete WITH the mess!! Thank you for sharing 💜 00:59:35 Brenda: Jacque — love your takeaway — Be in a space that honors my mess - This mess is ok - i am whole and complete 01:00:15 Joli Knott: @Michelyn 🙏🏽💙 01:00:37 Aiyana : ☺️@ Gregg 01:00:42 Barbara Daughter: so helpful what you shared @Jacque 01:01:30 Melissa Kozma: I quoted you in my notes @Jacque! 01:01:41 MaryAnn: There’s something to honoring the mess of our own lives…it’s what allows us the empathy to hold space for our clients and their “messes” and challenges. 01:02:13 Joli Knott: 💯@MaryAnn 01:03:03 sidsel: @Aiyana, I so get you on the magic, insights gratitude of life and much more available in pain and illness. What you’re sharing about that being ill is no less of a life is SO important at this moment in time. 01:04:03 Aiyana : @ Sidsel thank you. I feel touched by that 01:04:09 sidsel: <3 01:04:13 Aiyana : @Kelly— you’re touching my heart 01:04:18 Vlada Tomova: Kelly, that brought my tears out! 01:04:39 Barbara Daughter: so beautiful @Kelly 01:04:59 Brenda: Kelly - tears from me too. 01:05:16 Annelise Pesa: Beautiful Kelly 01:05:41 Joli Knott: @Kelly 💜💙 01:06:26 AJ Frenzel: I’m taking in so much in the reflections and shares. 01:10:11 Aiyana : Rachael Jayne puts in her marketing that she works with women who have been on the spiritual path for a while and she attracts enough business to make over a million a year. 01:11:47 Aiyana : I’m here and must lie down and not look at screen for a while. Totally present though 01:11:56 Aiyana : F 01:12:12 Aiyana : “Fully own who you’re people are” Love that 01:12:39 Barbara Daughter: sending hugs to you @Aiyana and honoring the challenge of being present today 01:14:38 Aiyana : @Sophie, ouch! Honoring your heart 01:14:55 Annelise Pesa: So much love to you @Sophie 01:15:08 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Sophie, sending so much love. So sorry for this loss and how much you’re holding around it. 01:15:20 Joli Knott: Sending you love @Sophie💜 01:15:27 Anna Robinson: Loving you, @Sophie. ❤️ 01:15:56 Jacque Alderete: Sophie, you have such a beautiful heart! So much love in the story you shared, my heart aches with yours 01:16:12 Vlada Tomova: Sending you lots of warmth and support, Sophie <3 01:16:14 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): I'm so sorry Sophie Jane! Sending you lots of hugs <3 01:16:18 Barbara Daughter: Holding you in my heart @Sophie 01:16:25 Gregg Berman: Sending love to you Sophie. It makes so much sense to be holding that fear given your past experience. And it speaks to how much you care for those you want to serve. <3 01:16:31 sidsel: Seeing you, Sophie, thank you for sharing with grace and love 01:17:38 Aiyana : @Kelly, I have been deeply hurt in the past by a couple of practitioners who charged a lot of money to cause me harm. They did not have the awareness you have or sensitivity you have. I can feel how you care about others and about your friend who took his life. Honoring your dear heart 01:18:11 Wendy: Sending you lots of love, Sophie <3 01:20:47 Sophie Jane Hardy: Thanks everyone for helping me to feel so safe as I process this. 01:20:57 sidsel: <3 01:23:59 AJ Frenzel: "I will follow that system of regimen which, according to my ability and judgment, I consider for the benefit of my patients, and abstain from whatever is deleterious and mischievous." 01:24:57 Joli Knott: This is great—thank you @AJ 💙 01:26:30 Brenda: I would like specific training in grounding - Is that part of this course? 01:26:46 Joli Knott: The risk in on both sides…. 01:27:12 sidsel: Takeaway: If a client gets triggered, there’s the possibility of bringing them back to stability (and that way create further healing). 01:28:11 Joli Knott: @Sidsel 💜 01:28:52 Barbara Daughter: @Sidsel - thanks for your Takeaway summaries 01:29:03 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): Brenda, there are many new courses on polyvagal theory that can be so wonderful teaching these techniques. That's the latest science about triggering and calming, and so much more. 01:29:41 Vlada Tomova: @Brenda - Breath work is one way to ground - inhale for 2-4 counts - exhale 4-8 counts is one simple way, or breathe into a bag 01:29:42 sidsel: In yoga Nidra where abbreviations can happen my teachers would always say that what comes up comes because the person is ready and can handle it. What they taught us to do was to recognise what was there and sit with them. 01:29:45 Brenda: I am currently reading that book….Thanks 01:29:55 sidsel: <3 @Barbara 01:31:13 Barbara Daughter: also in Resmaa Menakem’s book “My Grandmother’s Hands” he shares many calming & body-centering practices (although the focus of the book is on mending racialized trauma) 01:46:31 Aiyana : Irene Lyon is great. I have not done her classes, but I did a free video series of hers. Also, she is married to Seth Lyon, who was my neighbor years ago. They are great people 01:47:00 Joli Knott: Ooooh @Aiyana—that’s so cool! 01:47:05 Melissa Kozma: @Joli Oooh, very interesting! Varied skills you have! 01:47:26 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Yes, totally agree on this, Joanna. It’s a must read for all - I got it for the radicalized trauma aspects and it’s also so rich on the nervous system front 01:47:49 Joli Knott: @Melissa thank you! 🙏🏽💙 01:47:52 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Aiyana, Seth was your neighbor! That’s awesome 🙂 01:48:01 Melissa Kozma: @Aiyana I live in the same area as them! I have not run into them out and about though :) 01:48:17 Vlada Tomova: Thank you on the book suggestion! 01:48:31 Aiyana : Kelly, his son and mine were best friends for a while. He met Irene and moved to Canada to be with her. 01:48:32 Alta Felix: I had a staff meeting so I missed them. Could you please drop them in the chat for me? 01:48:46 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): @ Melissa Kelly ;), and @Joli, loving this connection as well! 🙏🏼 01:48:56 Joanna Lindenbaum (she/her): o What are your fears and concerns about working with clients? 01:49:08 Joanna Lindenbaum (she/her): o How has the fear been impacting you (inner and outer) 01:49:31 Sophie Jane Hardy: Fear that I’ll cause harm. 01:49:36 Joli Knott: The fear of inaction/procrastination 01:49:37 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): The fear of becoming overly responsible 01:49:39 Anna Robinson: The fear that “I’m different and no-one wants that" 01:49:40 Lara Storm: fear of being judged as not good enough or ineffective 01:49:49 AJ Frenzel: Fear of not keeping up my end of the bargain 01:49:53 Barbara Daughter: Fear that I don’t have my own unique content offering 01:50:03 sidsel: Concern: I don’t know when my son will start daycare and therefore when I can be accountable with time and therefore how to plan 01:50:04 Vlada Tomova: Fear of: Will we come out on the other side (of the messy parts that will inevitably come!) 01:50:07 Annelise Pesa: Fear of procrastination/ success ( too much stress if you are successful 01:50:12 MaryAnn: Mine is finding a way to reposition my work and practice that feels in alignment 01:50:13 Gregg Berman: knowing where to find clients and find and speak my authentic message to them. 01:50:13 Barbara Daughter: that it’s an amalgam of what I’ve learned 01:50:17 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Fear that I’m so “split” in what I offer and who I offer it to that I won’t find a way to market it and won’t reach the people I want to reach 01:50:20 Brenda: Fear of being seen authentically and rejected 01:50:22 Aiyana : Fear of collapsing if I am attacked — fear of not being strong enough to ‘go the distance' 01:50:39 Melissa Kozma: @Aiyana - Ah, he is from the US - I didn't know that! Sooo interesting, the connections 01:50:41 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I’d add a touch of Aiyana’s to my split... 01:50:58 Barbara Daughter: I also feel that @Kelly 01:51:20 Alta Felix: Fear of not delivering results 01:51:29 MaryAnn: To redefine as a fear…fear that I won’t find a positioning that is in alignment 01:52:01 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Fear of experiencing compassion fatigue and losing my empathy with a client. 01:52:15 Melissa Kozma: Fear in actualizing this work - feels unreal right now, in my vision but not real yet 01:52:21 sidsel: Fear: that everything is too much and I can’t get what I want 01:56:04 Gregg Berman: The fear is actually that i’ll never get stable enough in client acquisition to be financially viable and also to be able to spend time with friends and not feel like i’m constantly pushing with limited results 01:56:47 Joli Knott: I hear you, @Gregg—this is a fear for me, too 01:57:41 MaryAnn: My fear around repositioning my business is really centered around a fear of whether it will mean “wasting” or turning away from the substantial body of work I created over the years. The fear is telling me…be open to letting it go in order to see what pathways forward open up. 02:11:07 Anna Robinson: Thank you beautiful breakout room ladies @vlada @sidsel ❤️ 02:11:10 Joli Knott: Thank you @Michelyn and @Wendy—so nice to speak with you both! 🙏🏽💙 02:11:13 Alta Felix: I wish I could 02:11:51 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): witnessing, Michelyn 🙂 02:11:52 sidsel: <3 @Anna 02:12:14 AJ Frenzel: The universality of these fears and observations - the learning is exponentially powerful 02:12:16 Aiyana : ☺️Michelyn 02:12:33 Vlada Tomova: <3 yes! @Michelyn I channel as well and want to honor it! 02:12:36 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Yes, @AJ 02:12:58 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): Wendy and Joli, so nice to personally meet you both today! 02:13:02 Alta Felix: I love how my fear showed up as a flamboyant French man that brought an airiness to what I was fearing. Really bringing me back to the focus that it's not about me. I am just an energetic conduit 02:13:10 MaryAnn: Yes, Anna! Wanting to be a few steps ahead on the path and having to accept where you are now. Totally feel you. 02:13:12 Sophie Jane Hardy: “arrival is a myth” LOVE that 02:14:52 MaryAnn: Yeah, I kinda wanted to meet Alta’s fear and get my own fun pep talk. 02:14:55 AJ Frenzel: The Myth of Arrival is possibly the most helpful nugget that I’ve held onto since WILP in 2011. I learn that over and over and over. 02:15:14 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Love that, Alta! 02:15:29 Alta Felix: Thank you 💗 02:17:03 Aiyana : Thank you, Annelise. I also have my messy moments! 02:17:32 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): Love your mess, Annelise! Love mine too, mostly 02:18:33 Gregg Berman: Joanna, I was confused by the higher self part. My higher self or the fears higher self? 02:18:53 Barbara Daughter: Honoring your “mess” @Annelise 02:19:28 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Annelise, yes yes yes! Love the acknowledgment of honoring the mess and that we all have some version of it. we’re so HUMAN!! 02:20:16 Joli Knott: @Annelise 💜 02:20:18 Annelise Pesa: Thank you all ❤️ 02:21:03 AJ Frenzel: My fear wanted me to know - I am not you…I am just as vulnerable as you are…and challenged me to prove it wrong. 02:22:46 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Wow, Vlada, so powerful to experience this deeper embodiment of the wisdom through your speaking it. 02:22:52 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): witnessing you. 02:23:30 Vlada Tomova: <3 thank you, Kelly! 02:24:00 Wendy: So nice to meet you, Joli and Michelyn! Thank you for sharing your wisdom...always...I'm soaking it all in. <3 02:25:19 Gregg Berman: Love that - “People are always going to judge you but that doesn’t mean that their right” 02:25:21 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Wow, Lara, so powerful! feeling that in my body too 🙂 02:26:40 Melissa Kozma: I've become a street self-talker, too. It's like I can't hold it in anymore 02:27:14 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I love this!! 02:27:27 Annelise Pesa: Love that street self talker Melissa 02:27:28 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): I'm a street self-tapper! 02:27:40 Aiyana : Thank you for being so real, Joanna, and everyone else here too! 02:27:50 AJ Frenzel: *Speaking it feels powerful and that had distracted me from the power of the other side - Hearing it! 02:28:42 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I’m drinking in the realness in this group - it’s all kinds of powerful and feels like a major part of the teaching for me… thank you all for your beautiful sharing, and Joanna, for your amazing facilitating. 02:30:33 AJ Frenzel: My most brilliant ideas are born in the shower - and it’s almost like they get dried off right afterward. Lol 02:30:55 Sophie Jane Hardy: Me too AJ! Ha ha 02:32:46 Joli Knott: @AJ—OMG—thank you for sharing that (belly laugh!) 😁 02:33:43 Barbara Daughter: that’s such a helpful inquiry @Joli. thanks for asking 02:34:03 Joli Knott: Thank you @Barbara 💜 02:34:46 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Joli, helpful to hear both your question and the response. And I hear you - I’ve been doing a number of different modalities - trained in lots of things but not coaching 🙂 02:35:27 Joli Knott: Thank you @Kelly—I’m happy to be in such good company! 💙 02:35:40 Layne Mosler: @Deva I find the concept of emotional pricing very helpful in figuring out what to charge: https://lateralaction.com/articles/emotional-pricing/ 02:36:14 Joli Knott: Thanks for the share @Layne! 💙 02:36:24 Annelise Pesa: Amazing share @Joanna thank you 02:37:21 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): thanks for that, Layne. I'll check it out too 02:37:36 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Oh, I really don’t want to leave but I have another meeting I am now late for. So many blessings - thank you Joanna, and all, for this wonderful session. 🙏🏼 02:37:52 AJ Frenzel: If I charge too little I get resentful AND over give. If my rate gets (feels) to high, I’m afraid of getting complacent. Hmm. 02:38:02 Joli Knott: See you soon @Kelly! 02:38:39 Melissa Kozma: The topic of rates has caused me trepidation as well. 02:41:54 Sophie Jane Hardy: Go Sidsel! I love your action, your momentum, your commitment, your courage. 02:42:31 Aiyana : Cheering you on, Sidsel! 02:42:40 Joli Knott: @Sidsel 💜💜💜💜💜 02:43:50 Layne Mosler: I can feel your excitement, Sidsel - this is so great!! 02:44:08 Joli Knott: Takeaway: often too many options will paralyse prospective clients. 02:44:37 Layne Mosler: Yes, @Joli - thank you for underlining that. 02:45:03 Joli Knott: @Layne 😊💜 02:45:16 sidsel: Yeah @Sophie, @Aiyana, @ Joli, and @Layne, thank you!<3 02:45:30 Barbara Daughter: great question @Jacque 02:46:44 Aiyana : Yes, I was miserable when I had to ‘put on an entrepreneurial’ face and speech and clothing, etc. It’s essential for me to be my real self 02:47:44 Joli Knott: Ditto @Aiyana! 💯 02:48:01 AJ Frenzel: Overcomplicating feels like an avoidance strategy for me. Also wanting to offer ALL of the possible packages for each individual potential client now feels aligned to giving too much curriculum in too little time. I want to give, I want to share my wisdom and experience. Thank you for showing and teaching us that this creates overwhelm and confusion, and does not serve our clients. 02:48:34 AJ Frenzel: Ooooh. Structure promotes Flow 02:48:51 Joli Knott: LOVE THAT!! 02:49:12 sidsel: Banks for the river<3 02:50:58 Barbara Daughter: thanks for asking this question Lara! 02:51:25 Joli Knott: Great question @Lara! 02:55:20 Joli Knott: Love this question @AJ 02:56:12 Joli Knott: This is good to know!! 02:56:26 Joli Knott: I’ve been playing with the term “guide” 02:56:27 MaryAnn: You can speak to the result you help your clients create, or the problem you help them solve. That’s usually more important than your title, especially when it comes to marketing. 02:57:13 Aiyana : To be where I am at— start where I am 02:57:15 Joli Knott: I’m where I need to be at the pace that’s right for me 🙂 02:57:16 Sophie Jane Hardy: That I can be a ground of love and safety for my clients. And that we’re all beautifully, messily human together. 02:57:27 Brenda: How important it is to share authentically - how similar our struggles are to each other 02:57:29 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): there is so much power and healing in just naming our common fears and questions 02:57:34 Barbara Daughter: Authenticity 02:57:38 Alta Felix: That the ball will fall and that's okay. I can hold space for that too. It's not about me. 02:57:46 Vlada Tomova: AJ and Joanna - thank you ..When people ask me what I do - I feel like just saying “I am a singer” doesn’t even start to reflect what I do 🙂 02:57:54 sidsel: I have a lot of good stuff right here and now and more is on the way! Cherish! 02:57:58 Layne Mosler: We can learn so much from what’s underneath our fears. 02:58:07 MaryAnn: Clarity will unfold at the right time, and until then I get to keep taking steps forward on the path. 02:58:23 Annelise Pesa: Showing up with compassion, versus other and myself 02:58:29 Lara Storm: Always look for the higher wisdom in our fear 02:58:44 Jacque Alderete: Taking simple action steps with what I DO have access to will help to water the seeds that I've planted 02:58:49 Barbara Daughter: that was a powerful practice of asking our fear its greatest wisdom 02:58:50 Melissa Kozma: To let go of the programming of what a coach is supposed to 'look like' or 'be like' or have achieved materially in order to be valid. Also, we share so many of the same fears 02:58:54 Alta Felix: Thank you for today! 02:58:55 Vlada Tomova: Take away: I WANT to be in the mess with others!!! I have the power to take one step at a time, that’s all that’s needed <3 🙂 02:59:03 AJ Frenzel: That each of us is in our own mess - which will not and does not have to go away in order to serve and be successful transformational practitioners 02:59:05 Alta Felix: Sending you all love! 02:59:23 MaryAnn: Tapping into something we talked about yesterday…for me right now, it’s time to embrace being in the mystery. 02:59:35 Sophie Jane Hardy: What a beautiful call, thank you SO much. 02:59:50 Barbara Daughter: thanks everyone for all your shares today! and thank you Joanna for holding this beautiful container 03:00:00 Melissa Kozma: This was great - thank you so much to everyone here 03:00:03 AJ Frenzel: Thank EVERYONE so so much. You are amazing 03:00:05 Joli Knott: Thank you @Joanna and my thanks to everyone! 03:00:06 Wendy: This was amazing. Thank you Joanna and everyone! 03:00:06 sidsel: Thank you! 03:00:16 Anna Robinson: Thank you everyone! 03:00:18 MaryAnn: Thank you! 03:00:23 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Thank you! <3 03:00:25 Annelise Pesa: So much healing in this container thank you Joanna and all 03:00:39 Vlada Tomova: Thank you!!! <3