00:02:24 Joli Knott: Hi everyone! 00:07:51 Layne Mosler: I thought I was doing certification to feel more secure in identifying as a coach. What I'm realizing is that it's compelling me to engage more actively with the material and work harder to integrate it. 00:08:19 Joli Knott: I love that way of framing it, Layne! 00:09:56 Essie Richards: I really feel this too Layne 00:11:01 Layne Mosler: Essie šŸ’œ Joli šŸ’œ 00:19:16 Annelise Pesa: Really really trusting in depth , the process . As if I don’t resistance is made on my side and then their side. And that is coaching derailment 00:19:43 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): I've brought my heart forward to center stage. 00:19:47 Deva Munay: Moving away from consulting into coaching. Being more CURIOUS. Creating and the container of trust. 00:20:04 Barbara Daughter: It's a more consistent focus. Slowing down to pay closer attention to the subtleties and inquiring from those nuances which can be very informative 00:20:10 Sophie Jane Hardy: I’m really getting the ā€˜whole and completeā€ thing at new levels. Loving the feeling of beauty that arises from an equal playing field 00:20:17 Randa Sultan: really dropping into the you are whole and complete and I am also whole and complete - verbalizing this as well as a reminder for both to even the playing field 00:20:25 Erin Borbet: Cultivating my own energetics as priority outside of client sessions - self care and ritual. 00:20:33 AJ Frenzel: letting my intuition lead the connection vs feeling like I had to present myself in a certain way 00:20:56 AJ Frenzel: ie. Grounding myself & bringing my whole self 00:22:11 Annelise Pesa: Make sure I connect deeply with myself before the session 00:22:11 Randa Sultan: Defining the container more clearly - in the client agreement, boundaries on what the expectations are, sessions planned, end date, responses to emails/texts timeline etc... 00:22:19 Sophie Jane Hardy: Going deeper - having clear contracts and agreements before we begin. 00:22:22 Layne Mosler: embodying and cultivating the trust that the client absolutely knows best 00:22:22 Deva Munay: Feeling all the emotions and slowing down, pausing, asking clear questions, Staying in my heart as an equal. 00:22:24 MaryAnn: Being willing (and more comfortable) going deeper when there is an opportunity to support the client to explore emotions that are surfacing, and holding that part of the container in a different way. 00:22:26 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I've been seeing us all as whole and complete more profoundly, for them and myself, moving away from feeling I need to please or be liked - or FIX everything. Celebrating this and also feeling how much more I need to deepen into this 00:22:49 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): Trusting in the session evolution. 00:22:54 AJ Frenzel: Honoring the CLOSURE of the container. I feel grief about an ending and have noticed I can let it slip away. 00:23:03 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): finding more clarity in discerning between inequality in privilege/skills/experience etc and equalising the playing field/whole and complete 00:23:13 Vlada Tomova: slowing down even more to trust the process and asking questions, rather than offer counseling them, and letting them discover their truth 00:23:40 Vlada Tomova: tightening the container even more 00:24:35 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): I'm more relaxed, and I'm also getting closer to being really clear on what it means to help a client move from A to B 00:24:47 Vlada Tomova: I am checking my filters more often and inserting myself way less 00:24:49 Carmen Miranda: I’m finding myself able to get out of my own head and my own filters more and really listen and hear the client better 00:25:27 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Expanding the container I'm listening in - Listening more deeply to what's up in the present and what I'm holding in the VISION for them and weaving these together 00:25:38 Vlada Tomova: be even more open to hear the other's truth and accept it as it is 00:25:56 Randa Sultan: pausing the conversation to re-iterate to the client what they just said, making space and time for deeper listening 00:26:18 Brenda: I am naming filters at least to myself. I would like to stay even more present -- love what Vlada said - be even more open to hear the other's truth and accept it as it is 00:26:20 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): am a naturally good listener/people feel listened to! Have found the banks for the river of the client's words. edge: when to respond to something I hear as a key issue in the client that they might not be ready to see themselves - pacing 00:26:26 AJ Frenzel: I've become better at taking notes on client's language & want to deepen that practice because the words slip out of my mind even as the concepts hold on 00:26:41 MaryAnn: More attuned to the gap between what the client is saying and doing/not doing. 00:27:04 MaryAnn: Listening more for what is not being said...is there an elephant in the room that is asking to be addressed? 00:27:46 Annelise Pesa: Noticing what is not said but it’s present 00:28:13 Vlada Tomova: i’ve adopted celebrations!!! 00:28:25 Brenda: Noticing celebrations and bringing it to others' attention to celebrate with them 00:28:41 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I’m asking much better questions and in asking, helping them to show themselves what's worthy of celebration. And my celebrations feel less like cheerleading, but more like deepening their awareness of what's shifting and creating more of the same 00:28:47 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): I'm making a whole lot more space for the client to verbalize the aha's and not jumping in. 00:29:16 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): the right moment to do it! 00:29:28 Vlada Tomova: i’m able to sit with shadows more readily, without jumping into toxic positivity! 00:29:51 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Growth edge - speaking hard truths - still hard for me 00:29:54 AJ Frenzel: celebrating - gaining confidence with the nuance of when and how to 'interrupt' and ask let the client ā€œsay that again" & take it in 00:30:03 Annelise Pesa: Clarity ( pause and silence ) when there is confusion 00:30:15 MaryAnn: I’m using different questions more effectively…and this is still a growth edge as I experiment with which ones are suited to different scenarios, client energies, etc. 00:30:23 Randa Sultan: Acknowledging and honouring where the client is, and what they are going through. give some space to sit in it 00:30:27 Layne Mosler: sometimes i get so attached to creating awareness on what the client is saying but often it's about creating awareness around something bigger/what they're not saying/how things fit together 00:30:31 Erin Borbet: Me too - reflecting hard truths without too much "softening" or dancing around them 00:30:47 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): REALLY seeing the 4 levels of learning and processing as equal. I've been such a cognitive junkie! 00:31:11 Deva Munay: Really being with the use of ā€œAm I getting this rightā€ and reflecting back the client’s words/feelings 00:31:23 Annelise Pesa: They are simpler and more effective 00:31:25 Layne Mosler: cognitive junkie! šŸ˜€ 00:31:42 AJ Frenzel: growth edge for creating awareness - tricky overthinkers that seem to be avoiding the depth 00:31:52 Vlada Tomova: fining the fine balance between reflecting on what is in both the negative and positive aspects - and eventually helping move things forward productively and fullheartedly 00:31:56 Joli Knott: I’ve been blown away at how a finely crafted question can really open up awareness and lead to the client making a breakthrough on their own… 00:31:59 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): Questioning has been the most important skill module for me 00:32:13 Randa Sultan: expanding the types and ways of asking questions to allow the client to go deeper 00:32:13 Melissa K: Becoming more aware of what is necessary to know vs 'details for details sake' 00:32:29 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Channeling Joanna ;) (just kidding, though sometimes I feel I am trying!) - yes to "am I getting this right?ā€ a lot more - it feels good and has opened up space for them to clarify and be sure we're on the same page, or go deeper 00:32:35 Vlada Tomova: simplifying the questions 00:33:26 Vlada Tomova: allowing time to formulate the question 00:33:41 AJ Frenzel: growth- slowing down to compose the questions in a more simple & direct way 00:33:43 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): The progression of questions from one to another, leading the client through an organic process 00:33:46 Randa Sultan: trying on some of the 50 questions resource sheet to stretch myself on the ways I can allow the client to think about things differently. making more space for the questioning. avoiding leading questions/long winded ones 00:34:28 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Growth edge - Getting more comfortable with the questions on the worksheets (so helpful) and having them come more naturally in different scenarios 00:35:10 Vlada Tomova: using client language while introducing new concepts, allowing for the process to happen 01:08:54 Vlada Tomova: wow .. amazing ession! 01:08:57 Joli Knott: Beautiful!! 01:09:16 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Amazing, both of you. Thank you both for your courage and vulnerability! 01:09:32 Barbara Daughter: Wonderful! 01:09:37 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): Nice work, both of you! So brave to do that in front of the group! 01:09:57 Maria's iPad (2): So so beautiful! I feel seen, heard and loved even though I was just listening. 01:10:19 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): AJ, so much bravery in doing this - celebrating you! 01:11:04 Joli Knott: I loved how that came together given AJ’s specialty! 01:11:06 Wendy: That was amazing work! Thank you both for doing this for all of us. I'm so lucky to get AJs magical coaching weekly. <3 01:20:03 Melissa K: Great quote from AJ "The beauty of magic is that it's out there, even if the soldiers don't see it." šŸ’› 01:23:12 Sophie Jane Hardy: Q: I have a question… I found myself wanting to get practical - are there opportunities for more financial abundance to enter your world right now, how could you open up to them more?… to get more into the actual detail of how this pattern was showing up… 01:26:09 Joli Knott: I can really hear how you were working on the emotional level, AJ…. 01:29:05 AJ Frenzel: that's beautiful, Isa 01:29:08 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): yeah, Isa! 01:29:10 Sophie Jane Hardy: `Isa that’s awesome! 01:29:15 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Isa, LOVE this idea! 01:29:58 Barbara Daughter: that's such an awesome concept, Isa! 01:30:35 Randa Sultan: Isa and Joanna beautiful visual and how to use this to empower the client to work through this! 01:31:02 Sophie Jane Hardy: Need to go and take care of my little guy now. Thanks everyone. 01:31:09 Barbara Daughter: yes that was very helpful AJ! 01:31:36 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Thank you @AJ, Kelly, Barbara, Sophia, Sidsel & Randa. <3 01:36:21 Michelyn.com (MIKE-uh-lin): Joanna, I'm really appreciating how you are managing this process in such a positive and supportive way. It can be so vulnerable to practice in front of others. 01:40:53 Barbara Daughter: thank you so much AJ & Essie! 01:40:53 Vlada Tomova: This was a magical session all around! <3