00:01:55 amy palatnick: so excited for today! 00:02:04 Layne Mosler: me, too. 00:02:07 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): me too 00:02:51 AJ Frenzel: Hello all! I’ll be on video shortly! 00:03:03 Janná Giles: Hello Lovely Beings❣️🌞 00:10:09 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Thank you for creating the opportunity for more practice, Joanna! 00:14:09 Barbara Daughter: I’m not seeing an email re: more coaching practice nor where it is on the website. 00:14:54 Randa Sultan: @barbara it was sent on June 24th "NEW - Coaching Partner Practice Sessions!" 00:16:35 amy palatnick: Not growing is very uncomfortable. 🙂 00:16:36 Barbara Daughter: Thanks Randa! Found it! 00:17:54 Joli Knott: 💯 @Amy! 00:18:37 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Q: do we have access to the blueprint sessions once the training is over? 00:26:50 amy palatnick: like neurodivergence 00:27:46 Brenda: constant overwhelm 00:27:52 Layne Mosler: fatigue 00:27:53 Joli Knott: I fill out my coaching homework at the last minute! 00:28:07 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): overwhelm thinking of a big thing ahead of me - keeping me from doing other smaller things 00:28:08 amy palatnick: so many classes i keep not offerin 00:28:23 MaryAnn: Oh, what Kelly said. 🙂 00:28:24 Tina Dowdy: never enough time 00:28:33 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Overwhelm = not sure how to show up to ALL the goals...taking on too much 00:28:42 Sarah Van Hoy: taking on too much 00:28:46 Janná Giles: Not asking colleagues to help me promote my offerings 00:28:48 Carla Sanders: Distraction: so much work to do in everyday life. 00:28:56 Janná Giles: Taking on too much 00:28:57 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): wanting to be done straight away and not honouring the process 00:29:03 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Having SO MANY IDEAS of what to create, and not DECIDING so I can move foward 00:29:10 Carla Sanders: Offering the low price thing and NOT offering the big deep work. 00:29:19 amy palatnick: “I need a virtual assistant, can't manage all this” 00:29:29 Aiyana McKenzie: It's a mix of legitimate challenges combined with R. Chronic fatigue, exhaustion, illness, issues from TBI, body giving out on me often so hard to make plans… Fear of being seen, fear of being 'attacked' and not having strength to stay strong.. 00:29:29 amy palatnick: @kelly yes!! 00:29:30 Barbara Daughter: same here @Kelly 00:29:33 Carla Sanders: Yes, I can't because I need a VA. 00:29:35 Nell Reid: Pushing action steps off b/c it’s summer vacation - timing is not right 00:29:42 Janná Giles: Not being able to decide on a free gift 00:30:22 Aiyana McKenzie: Yes, Kelly!!! When I feel well enough to be creative, that becomes a big R for me too 00:30:26 Carla Sanders: Then Resistance is What's stopping from getting the support/VA/etc. 00:33:21 Aiyana McKenzie: All healing has it's time. 00:33:23 amy palatnick: this is pretty close to magic! <3 00:34:19 amy palatnick: builds trust to not push them. 00:34:30 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I've seen the honoring be the tool that helps to unwind the resistance - just giving permission 00:34:43 Tina Dowdy: whats the best way to honor and respect a client who is not ready to move forward in their resistance? 00:34:48 Joanna Lindenbaum (she/her): When was a time when you simply weren’t ready or willing to move past your own resistance? 00:34:50 Janná Giles: Right now 00:35:06 amy palatnick: i did 4 years of therapy and never talked about my central issue with my father. 00:35:16 amy palatnick: still stuck there. 00:35:16 Jen Youngquist: Right now 00:35:20 Carla Sanders: In practically every biz coaching program I was a part of. I did not realize yet the role childhood trauma played in some of my choices/fears. 00:35:34 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): With my writing: I stopped writing for almost 15 years because I believed I could not get published and it was too hard to make time for it 00:35:44 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): stepping into relationship/ partnership - so much childhood stuff there to keep me safe 00:35:57 MaryAnn: A few years ago I wanted to go through a process to attract a relationship...but wasn't ready/willing to do the steps and self reflection on what MY role was in past relationships. That was 4 years ago…I recently just became "ready" and am doing that now. 00:36:02 Joanna Lindenbaum (she/her): What were the judgements, critcisms or beliefs you created about yourself because of your resistance? 00:36:08 Sarah Van Hoy: If I didn't do the thing, I believed that I didn't belong with the people who did the thing. 00:36:19 amy palatnick: “I'm a sociopath" 00:36:22 Nell Reid: That I’m a flake. 00:36:23 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): That I wasn't committed or disciplined. 00:36:44 Aiyana McKenzie: That I am lazy and stupid, a failure and will never make it 00:36:44 MaryAnn: That what I wanted to achieve was too hard, and that I could not succeed at it. 00:36:46 Joli Knott: That I'm too slow and too emotional 00:36:48 Carla Sanders: That I was the problem. I kept doing the things “pushing through fear" and outcomes kept getting worse. 00:36:56 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): It's just not for me - I'm not worthy of it. I don't know how. I'm not capable of staying steady... 00:37:02 Barbara Daughter: I created judgments of those / those methods that others suggested I use when I was in resistance. 00:37:07 Carla Sanders: Shame shame shame piled on shame 00:37:10 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): not worthy 00:37:57 Joanna Lindenbaum (she/her): o When was a time either as coach or partner or friend or parent or child that you tried to push someone past their resistance when they weren’t willing or ready? What were the results? 00:38:22 Janná Giles: With my husband... He just dug his heels in deeper 00:38:27 Melissa K: They run away or avoid 00:38:35 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): results for them: fighting even harder results for me: distance and fights 00:38:43 amy palatnick: I tend to run away from edges instead of pushing but feel a subtle less conscious pushing underneath that makes me and the client uncomfortable. 00:38:44 Aiyana McKenzie: I used to try to push my son, clients, and family members past their resistance on a regular basis. I didn't know I was doing this. Mixed results, but none of them great 00:38:46 Randa Sultan: when my partner wasn't willing to admit he was an alcoholic and actually change for good... the results were terrible... anger toward me, pushing back, digging in heels deeper, deception... 00:39:22 MaryAnn: A light supportive comment to a parent on an issue resulted in a verbal lashing out at me. Results for her…stay where she is. Results for me…fear/avoidance of sharing honest support for fear of receiving backlash/abuse. 00:40:24 Randa Sultan: learnings... don't push people past what they are ready for... but at the same time this relates to me holding back on "pushing" my clients past or through their resistance pieces as it brings up conflict - and I am conflict averse! 00:40:24 Carla Sanders: I am the best example. And with family or clients, I maybe back off too soon from resistance. Possibly their resistance triggers mine. 00:40:47 MaryAnn: Sidsel...that's a GREAT way to describe what happens when people avoid addressing their resistance. 00:40:48 Joli Knott: That's such a good point @Carla 00:41:10 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Beautiful, Aiyana. Dancing with fear and resistance... 00:42:16 Barbara Daughter: What an amazing experience @Aiyana that your friend was able to support you with this challenging time 00:42:23 Joli Knott: Loved your share @Aiyana 💜 00:42:31 Aiyana McKenzie: Thank you, Kelly and Barbara 😄 00:42:36 AJ Frenzel: I *used to* push my daughter through what I saw as resistance. it causes conflict and antagonism and both of us feeling awful AND not making any change 00:42:50 Joli Knott: Same here @AJ 00:43:05 AJ Frenzel: * used to* = always working on it 00:43:52 Layne Mosler: This is so interesting, @Kelly. How can we tell the difference between discernment/wisdom and resistance? 00:44:01 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Am in a very similar place, @Kelly, it's been 6 years here and we're moving out on monday! Hearing you so deeply. 00:44:06 Melissa K: Good lesson in Kelly's share to take steps to prepare for a goal, even if not quite ready 00:45:15 Barbara Daughter: great points @Kelly 00:45:19 Joli Knott: Love, love, love your share here, @Kelly! 00:45:23 Carla Sanders: What role does DECISION make in being at this point? the client makes a decision but resistance interferes with moovement 00:45:38 Carla Sanders: response to Kelly's story 00:45:49 Tina Dowdy: whats the best way or most dignified and empowering way, to honor and respect a client's choice of not being ready to move forward in their resistance? 00:46:44 MaryAnn: Such a great question, Tina. 00:48:18 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Tina, in response to your question, one of the things that was most helpful for me was when 2 friends (in a month time period) said to me, “wow, you've got so much you're managing and doing a move is one of the biggest things you could do.” - just witnessing and acknowleding - once I realized they could SEE it, I trusted them (and myself) more. And then I could work on steps and consideirng the possibility more fully. 00:51:34 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Q:what are some signs (from a client) that a practitioner might be pushing a client? 00:51:51 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Yes, @Melissa, taking steps and exploring possibilities, even before being ready, helped me "gather data" and feel into the reality, and feel more confident in making a decision 00:52:05 Tina Dowdy: that's so great... thank you so much Joanna and Kelly :) 00:55:12 amy palatnick: like the guesthouse, Rumi 00:55:49 amy palatnick: sexy! 00:56:01 Randa Sultan: soo much of a difference 00:56:33 Carla Sanders: tenderness 00:56:53 Nell Reid: Approaching it with love feels nurturing and my response softened… feels so much safer. 00:56:54 Aiyana McKenzie: This is landing really well for me. The friend who helped me with the video had this attitude toward me of approaching my resistance with love and it made all the difference. He didn't make me wrong. He believed it was normal and ok for my body to ‘give out,' and he was committed to working with the 'what is’ 00:57:09 Brenda: it makes me cry and relax and feel safer -- definietely tenderness 00:57:40 Aiyana McKenzie: @Brenda-- Me too! 00:57:48 Brenda: @Aiyana -- what a beautiful partnership 00:57:54 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): It's like the love one didn't get when the survival mechanism kicked in and created the resistance 00:58:01 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Brenda, I had the same experience of tenderness - so soft and yummy 00:58:11 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Yes, Sidsel, I was thinking the same - like what was missing was given... 00:58:15 Aiyana McKenzie: Yes, Brenda 😄 Make me want to work with him on a regular basis 00:58:53 Brenda: I want a partner like that 00:59:21 Brenda: Didn't know it was something to ask for or possible 00:59:30 Aiyana McKenzie: It makes sense that love is the best medicine because we form these fears and Resistance from not having unconditional love to begin with. We are usually afraid of not being loved or lovable, so if we start with Love, it changes the energy on a foundational level. 00:59:38 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Yes, totally! @Kelly 00:59:46 Randa Sultan: releases the ability to beat oneself up over it 01:01:15 Tina Dowdy: when the practitioner uses the energy of love then I feel it makes it easier for me to confront the fear with self-compassion 01:03:30 Carla Sanders: Can you work with resistance without naming it? Or let the client name it? @joli and her point now 01:03:38 Barbara Daughter: yes @Tina 01:03:49 Aiyana McKenzie: Just a FYI so it's not confusing, I will be on computer and phone so I can continue hearing all of call as I navigate body-stuff, lol 01:04:00 AJ Frenzel: Joli that's a beautiful shift 01:04:05 Janná Giles: I resonate with that peer-sister energy 01:05:52 Joli Knott: Thanks @AJ—it feels really good!🙏🏽💙 01:06:32 Joli Knott: @Janná so glad you feel it, too 🙂 01:07:14 Joli Knott: Good question @Carla—maybe there is a time and place to dance when the fear underneath is not ready to be seen? 01:08:01 Carla Sanders: Bring it out of the blind spot and name the resistance 01:11:54 Barbara Daughter: when we're not in our full selves, it’s easy to become polarized 01:12:14 Joli Knott: Yes @Barbara! 01:13:34 Barbara Daughter: yes that energetic vortex of confusion/lack of clarity which leads to inertia 01:13:45 Brenda: I freeze 01:13:46 Melissa K: Confusion or blank out mind 01:13:49 Carla Sanders: I'd call it a blend of confusion and scarcity. They come together to spiral me away from what I really want, and how I really want to show up 01:13:49 amy palatnick: I can get depressive and hopeless, life means nothing. Nihilistic. Care about nothing. 01:14:10 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): “I can’t” or “your fault” 01:14:12 Angela Stringhini: defensiveness 01:14:15 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): It's a bit dissociative for me when it's really strong. Otherwise defensive and hopeless 01:14:34 MaryAnn: I take on more black and white thinking, and become negative. This won't work. That won't work….etc. 01:14:42 Barbara Daughter: @amy - that seems like your polar opposite since you always seem so bright and cheerful and purposeful to me 01:14:45 MaryAnn: Oh, and definitely defensive! 01:14:54 Aiyana McKenzie: I go into confusion and dissociation and become hopeless and negative, worst case scenarios seems only possibilities 01:15:10 Joli Knott: Yes to that black & white perspective @MaryAnn 01:15:54 Joli Knott: Very powerful--love this! 01:15:57 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): yes, it's very helpful to separate the energies like that 01:16:05 AJ Frenzel: One way I see it is that I go into I’m lazy, not smart, then shame & defensiveness. 01:16:09 Randa Sultan: is it almost like a trigger response? 01:17:22 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): It's as if this (recognising the client is stepping into an energy) is the enactment of the belief that the client is whole and complete 01:17:54 Joli Knott: That makes beautiful sense @Sidsel! 01:18:15 Barbara Daughter: yes well-said @Sidsel 01:18:16 Aiyana McKenzie: A big part of the wheel of suffering (from my view) is one person being triggered and then reacting to their trigger and they react to your triggered reaction and so on it goes… 01:18:25 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): 🙂Joli! I feel the beauty too - and the "aha” 01:18:25 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I also love to think of these parts as being powerful - because they are potent in keeping us safe - when they feel heard and seen and met, they can step back out of the driver's seat… and allow other parts to lead (going back to Joanna calling all of our parts home…) 01:18:26 Aiyana McKenzie: So wonderful to step out of this! 01:18:41 MaryAnn: I have found that sometimes when clients go VERY deep into taking on these kinds of qualities, no matter how much you love, normalize, etc., they just continue to double down and accelerate down the negative spiral of the resistance, including inappropriate behavior and lashing out. It doesn't happen too often, but when it does, it’s really tough to handle. I know that may not be on today's agenda, but I’d love to dig in to that. How to prevent this…and if it happens, how to navigate. I've seen it handled expertly...and still go very wrong. 01:18:57 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): <3 @Barbara 01:19:09 Melissa K: Ha ha ha "Resistance Archetype Dance" 01:19:28 Barbara Daughter: great question @MaryAnn 01:19:51 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): @Sidsel, such a beautiful way of seeing it… 01:20:08 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): MaryAnn, yes, would love to hear more on your beautiful question as well. 01:20:11 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): <3 @Kelly 01:20:27 Aiyana McKenzie: I love the term, “Resistance Archetype Dance." It names something I have seen myself and others fall into over and over. Calling it a dance brings lightness. Yay for that! 01:20:40 Joli Knott: @Kelly—LOVE this point about acknowledging these powerful parts so they can step out of the driver's seat--YES!! 01:21:14 Angela Stringhini: sorry Joanna, I missed the 1st hour of the class.. got where we are now.. 01:21:19 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): 🙏🏼❤️Joli, thanks. Yes, it feels really important in my body to see it this way… 01:23:35 AJ Frenzel: I’m hearing in the Dance how our resistance energy can invite someone else's counter resistance energy, vs. holding and inviting them into a more honest and open energetic vortex 01:24:06 Barbara Daughter: good observation @AJ 01:25:28 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Oh Yes! 01:25:34 Brenda: unfortuneately yes 01:25:44 Aiyana McKenzie: Yes, I know Victim Archetype well, lol 01:26:55 amy palatnick: great language! “Commitment to helplessness/disempowerment. “ 01:30:36 Sophie Jane Hardy: ah it looks like I’m late? 01:32:26 Randa Sultan: can you repeat that wording? 01:32:44 amy palatnick: randa: I don’t believe that you need to be a victim in this situation. How does this land for you? 01:33:10 Randa Sultan: @ amy thank you 01:35:42 Angela Stringhini: Question please: Do you say clearly that this is an archetype of resistance, and explain what it is as you described it for us? Is this part of normalising? 01:39:33 Janná Giles: I loved the " What if" stem! 01:40:08 MaryAnn: I love the approach of “poking holes”…contrary to the instinct to swoop in and set the whole thing straight at once. 01:40:36 Aiyana McKenzie: @MaryAnn Yes, me too 😄 01:41:43 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Yes, MaryAnn, totally agree - such a strategic way to chip away at the resistance… 01:44:33 MaryAnn: Yes, and when we're working with clients over a longer period of time, there's a lot of opportunity to "call out" and name the archetypes and patterns so each time they come up it's a little easier and lighter. 01:54:56 Angela Stringhini: @MaryAnn thank you for this, I have found very relieving to know that we are just stepping into this energy, and just by knowing this, I believe it can have a profound healing 01:57:13 Aiyana McKenzie: I am SO loving this discussion! Loving the RAs instead of fearing, judging, etc. feels exciting and full of possibilities. 01:59:28 Angela Stringhini: Interesting what you said, because for me had a completely different effect, it was like taking away a personal judgement and helped me to go deeper into my truth.. I love to know how people can react differently, thank you @AJ Frenzel for bringing this awareness 🥰 02:00:23 Barbara Daughter: yes @Angela -- I felt that it could go either way 02:01:18 Barbara Daughter: a sense of not being alone in this resistance way of being 02:02:50 Brenda: yes 02:02:55 Tina Dowdy: yes 02:02:57 Nell Reid: Yup! 02:03:03 AJ Frenzel: judge of self for sure 02:03:05 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): I'm an Aquarius. I am the Judge. ;p 02:03:08 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): yes - working with the inner critic has easened it 02:03:54 MaryAnn: I have found the judge to be a challenge…the demand for "answers” when what's required is exploration or a decision…or turning it around on the practitioner…”You told me to do this, and I did it, and it didn't work…” 02:09:38 MaryAnn: That's a powerful question. OMG. “When you're critical of others, what feeling or thought is it distracting you from?” 02:09:47 Barbara Daughter: @Joanna - can you repeat those last 2 questions? 02:10:26 Angela Stringhini: Those questions are not yet on the resource sheet available, are you going to upload it later? thank you 02:10:57 Barbara Daughter: thanks for asking that question too Angela 02:11:01 MaryAnn: What are some ways to address when the client becomes passive aggressive toward the practitioner? 02:11:02 Randa Sultan: @joanna - thank you -I've been looking at the old sheet and its much shorter! 02:13:05 Angela Stringhini: @Barbara you are welcome 02:15:27 Vlada Tomova: I wonder how to apply these/how to vary them into situations that are not straight forward coaching containers, but the archetypal resistance comes never the less, and sometimes in very subtle ways, or on the contrary - very strongly 02:16:46 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): This is helpful, thank you MaryAnn for asking 02:18:10 Anna Robinson: Is it possible to be dealing with more than one archetype at once? 02:18:19 Barbara Daughter: I’ve had other coaches who talk about resistance archetypes but it seems pretty shallow. Like a quick fix 02:23:34 Anna Robinson: ok cool, thank you! 02:23:38 AJ Frenzel: This is hitting me differently that it has previously. In my money work I sometime come with the filter that Awareness is the answer. Awareness is the change in and of itself. 02:24:34 Randa Sultan: I need to pop off - thank you! Will watch the rest of this on replay:) 02:26:44 Anna Robinson: I feel like I have all of these lol 02:27:05 Barbara Daughter: "disconnected one" -- some of these are very common with people who have ADD/ADHD 02:27:09 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Is it also jumping with excitement from one project to another? (serial loss of excitement and serial excitement…) 02:27:12 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): @Anna...Me too. Haha 02:27:39 Tina Dowdy: can you elaborate more on procreastination - can it be freeze mode? 02:28:33 Joli Knott: This is me! 02:28:43 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): @Barbara....Excellent point. 02:28:55 Angela Stringhini: and maybe people are “diagnosed “ with borderline ADHD but it could be a resistance instead... I am loving all these discussions and awareness, this topic is awesome.. 02:28:58 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Ayayay, this is my chronic story aroumd my newsletter writing… 02:38:59 amy palatnick: i like the use of "and" instead of "but" here. 02:42:15 Joli Knott: Great question @Kelly! 02:42:50 Barbara Daughter: both great question and answer @Kelly! 02:46:17 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): @Joli and @Barbara 🙏🏼❤️ 02:48:06 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Q: Joanna...if there is time, can you speak more about when Client develops physical symptoms when Resistance appears? I'd to love to hear what your thoughts about this. 02:49:02 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Am appreciating all the questions! This one is great, Isa 02:49:07 Layne Mosler: Wonderful question, Isa. 02:49:34 Joli Knott: Good question @Angela 💜And love this question, too, @Isa! 💙 02:52:05 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): So important to address this, Isa - thank you for the question. 02:52:48 Joli Knott: Such amazing awareness @Isa!! 02:53:25 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Physical symptoms as signposts for emotion 02:53:41 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Having an aha-moment making connections, thank you Isa 02:54:12 Joli Knott: Beautifully put @Sidsel! 02:54:39 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): <3 Joli <3 02:54:54 Tina Dowdy: true, because with autoimmune - physical symptoms happen as a result of multiple factors including the immune system malfunctioing 02:55:06 Angela Stringhini: thank you @Isa, such a powerful question 02:55:34 Barbara Daughter: great question @Isa 02:55:44 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Thank you everyone! <3 02:55:49 Brenda: normalize it and love on it1 02:55:49 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): acknowledgment - and if I remember, apply the antidote 02:56:11 aiyana: Work with coaching partner on my RA of victim. I already let her know I want to do this. 02:56:15 Layne Mosler: explore the fear beneath it 02:56:19 Joli Knott: Baby steps—feeling okay with taking one, tiny step! 02:56:22 MaryAnn: Bring it to my next coaching session with my buddy for more insights and some aligned actions. 02:56:22 Carla Sanders: I’m journaling my resistance through the processes you taught us here. I want to learn more and be more aware instead of sleeping through it 02:56:32 MaryAnn: And yes to journaling, Carla! 02:56:35 Angela Stringhini: I want to go through the journalling and antidotes to create deep inner awareness. I think I have all archetypes discussed here… 🤣 02:56:56 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): Reviewing these teachings, and going deeper into my own resistance archetypes to know them better, and then work with the antidotes... 02:57:12 Joli Knott: @Angela—me, too 😅 02:57:21 Maya: Acknowledge, shift perspective and use it to move forward rather than retreat or hide. 02:59:28 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): This is AMAZING work, thank you so much, JOanna - and to all of you for shares and questions. 02:59:42 Janná Giles: Loved this today! Thank you!!! 02:59:53 MaryAnn: I’m ready to get VERY curious about how my own archetype(s) impact my ability to coaching clients through theirs. 03:00:10 Angela Stringhini: to love the energies that I step into, honour it and respect it…this is powerful….and also to honour, love and respect it in others.. 03:00:13 aiyana: Take away Love the resistant archetypes, those of mine and others 03:00:50 Janná Giles: I'm going you get more curious about my own resistance in order to better help my clients! 03:01:02 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): I'm taking away many things - being in the loving the wholeness that includes all the parts… 03:05:48 MaryAnn: Thank you Joanna and everyone, I'm so sorry but I have to leave the call now. Thank you for a great discussion and container for growth and awareness today. ❤️ 03:09:02 amy palatnick: Seems like a time for role play conversation between AJ and the Judge? 03:09:04 Angela Stringhini: This is so beautiful, thank you Joanna… holding space for it is incredible! 03:09:53 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): My Judge and I are giving you and your Judge a big hug, AJ! <3 03:10:27 amy palatnick: (((AJ))) 03:10:28 Barbara Daughter: thank you AJ for your vulnerability here 03:11:33 Angela Stringhini: @Anna, thank you for this, helped to understand the layers, I was not connected to that level yet.. 03:11:49 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Am sensing the magnitude of this work, would it be possible to have some spaceholding for the process in between sessions via fx the facebook group (perhaps like there was in the beginning with questions of what's popping up for us)? 03:12:18 Melissa K: @AJ 😘 03:12:23 aiyana: @Sidsel 💛 03:12:39 aiyana: Thank you @AJ 03:12:46 Carla Sanders: @Vlada Yes. 03:12:46 Kelly Lubeck (she/her): AJ ❤️ and thank you. 03:12:48 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): @aiyana<3 03:12:52 Anna Robinson: I have to go. Sending love to you all and all of our collective resistances <3 Thank you! 03:13:14 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Yes, thank you, AJ<3 03:13:44 Angela Stringhini: @Vlada, thank you for asking this.. 03:13:48 Carla Sanders: Thank you all. thank you Joanna. See you next time. 03:13:50 amy palatnick: i agree @sidsel we could use our FB group more! 03:14:34 Sidsel Nelund (Si-sel - she/her): Yes, I loved to be poked to reflect on the process and to read other people's reflections and learnings, such great learning in there 03:16:09 Isa Beaulieu (she/her): Thank you Joanna and Everyone for your sharing and presence.. Sadly, I need to hop off. 03:16:48 AJ Frenzel: thank you everyone for the space and support. 03:18:37 Barbara Daughter: big hugs to you AJ! 03:19:07 Joli Knott: @AJ 💛💫 03:19:09 Angela Stringhini: @AJ thank you 03:19:42 Joli Knott: Thanks so much for today—lots of big learning!! 💜 03:19:50 Angela Stringhini: Thank you incredible session again!!!