00:00:44 Jana Mariana: i'm going off camera for a minute to finish my lunch :) 00:05:08 Lisa Avnet: it's upped my comfort level and emboldened me! Woot! 00:06:00 Inbal Sansani (she/her): YAY, Anna! <3 Feels so good. 00:06:14 Anita Puksic (anitapuksic.com): Congrats, Julianna! 00:06:28 Jana Mariana: congratulations, Julia. That's great! 00:06:35 Kim Davies: That is so great Julianna and Lisa! 00:07:16 Julianna: thanks for the love! 00:08:50 Natalie Jobity, The Unveiled Way: Great share Carmen! 00:11:10 Gaia: I have been enjoying the practice coaching sessions with My partner Heather, its been a very big deal brainstorming, coaching and reflecting. Just wonderful! The BIG BREACKTHRU that came up was finally finding what to call myself and what I do 00:13:37 Julie Greenberg: YaY, Gaia... That's huge. I'll love to hear what you've come up with if you feel called to share here. 00:15:15 Inbal Sansani (she/her): What do you mean, If YOU have a little learning? 00:21:14 Gaia: I love everything you just shared! wow,Thank you 00:23:01 Lisa Avnet: Julie, am I hearing she just wants to dump? 00:24:18 Inbal Sansani (she/her): With friends, it's always good to ask for consent. Or, what are you needing? 00:24:22 Natalie Jobity, The Unveiled Way: I can't not coach--I just try to adjust my language a bit with friends so it does not come across as coachy 00:27:44 Heather Newcomb, VWW: I just tell my son that's my "love language" 00:35:24 Julie Greenberg: naming and acknowledging my willingness to be wrong within the dialogue with my friend the other night proved to be very helpful for both of us. 00:36:52 Anita Puksic (anitapuksic.com): Wow, Vessica, well said and good question! 00:43:43 Inbal Sansani (she/her): So tender. 00:45:48 Julie Greenberg: I feel like in the example you shared your reflection and honoring would create such a sense of spaciousness and expansiveness, inviting her to remember to feel into that love along with the layers of frustration. 00:47:12 Anita Puksic (anitapuksic.com): "Empowered compassion" <3 00:48:13 Gaia: "COACHING IS LOVE IN ACTION" wow! 00:54:18 Andrea Lee she/her: Yay Windy 00:54:48 Julianna: ♥️ 00:55:09 Natalie Jobity, The Unveiled Way: Windy I totally feel you with that. I know that words of Affirmation are important to me. So it IS why when I coach, it is so natural for me to do that. I can't help it. It's what need and how I show support 00:56:22 Windy Wile: ♥️thank you 00:57:31 Gaia: ❤️ 01:04:06 Julie Greenberg: Part of what I intended to speak in my share about this client is that as I was leaving, she kept thanking me and saying, “you are an angel on earth…” and the whole experience really felt like a confirmation of “coaching is Love in action in a professional setting.” So rewarding. 01:04:57 Gaia: 🙏🏽 beautiful Julie! 01:07:46 Vessica: Also childhood trauma 01:09:25 Nicole Villegas: that happens for me too, natalie. thanks for mentioning this 01:11:33 Anita Puksic (anitapuksic.com): Natalie and Joanna, thank you for this, this is so useful for me now. 01:11:35 Gaia: I also heard something recently that part of the human brain is wired for survival like our ancestors had to, and so part of us naturally have that wiring of focusing on whats not working, what might go wrong etc. 01:17:18 Fanshen Thompson: That so true, Gaia. I say that to my clients also, which normalizes their experiences and helps them see that looking at the joy, or what is going well, or celebrating often has to be intentional as it is not our default.. 01:20:07 Julie Greenberg: Cue narcissist dad who almost only ever engaged through acknowledging and celebrating and promoting his own achievements. Hero complex. Loved the dude, but… 01:20:23 Anita Puksic (anitapuksic.com): Fanshen, that's great idea, to share that with them. Thank you for idea. 01:21:42 Fanshen Thompson: Sure thing, Gaia. I have found that clients find it very helpful 01:23:25 Julie Greenberg: Andrea’s share sounded as though that coach was both celebrating in a way that felt generic and impersonal, and therefore reflected that he was not tracking who she is/what would or would not resonate for her; therefore, not trustworthy. 01:26:08 Lisa Avnet: I think it's important to enrich our celebration vocabulary; I have had a coach who is very effusive, and You're Amazing! is her default. It's nice to hear, but it feels lazy and somewhat generic. I would appreciate some more insightful vocabulary and specifics, and it's something I strive for. 01:26:11 Andrea Lee she/her: Yes, Julie I think that's true, it was a very extroverted way of celebrating something, which I think is more generally accepted, but not my style, and weird timing also. (Before the call happened) 01:26:46 Natalie Jobity, The Unveiled Way: I love that Lisa! 01:26:59 Andrea Lee she/her: But your point is exactly right, I felt misunderstood. (Julie :-) ) 01:27:47 Michelle Marlahan: Love that, Gaia 01:28:13 Anita Puksic (anitapuksic.com): "To celebrate resting" omg, chills!! Love this, thanks Gaia! 01:29:47 Lauren Piro (she/her): I feel like the energy of celebrations is so important. Our authenticity and embodiment during the celebration feels really important. 01:29:57 Nicole Villegas: 100% 01:30:29 Fanshen Thompson: I have to jump off, thanks everyone!! 01:30:38 Andrea Lee she/her: I loved Empowered Compassion along with so much else 01:30:53 Carmen Guerrero she/her: Thank you everyone! 01:30:54 Nicole Villegas: thank you again for everthing 01:31:00 Michelle Marlahan: Thank you! 01:31:01 Lisa Avnet: coaching is love .. 01:31:04 Gaia: LOVE the Reflection piece, really enlightening 01:31:05 Sarah MacKay Lynch: @CELEBRATIONS at the beginning. I find that I'm more open as a receiver when a group starts with celebrations when I’m in a group than in an individual session when I’m being coached or coaching. It's lovely to hear other peoples celebrations…and like gratitudes, inspires me to think of my own. 01:31:07 Anita Puksic (anitapuksic.com): Thank you Joanna and everyone else for your shares today, I feel I received so much! 01:31:07 Jana Mariana: thnk you!