00:29:34 Lisa Archer: Sorry I keep coming in and out of the meeting, my internet connection is really unstable and I've had to join from my phone now instead of my PC 00:31:31 Jessica Dawson: Do you have a sample of a pre-call questionnaire we could see? 00:33:00 Jessica Dawson: Thank you 00:33:18 Jennifer Malamas: Can you comment on container for an ongoing group? How much to put in at the beginning? Especially if it is short (like 60 minutes) 00:34:14 Jennifer Malamas: Meets monthly or regularly 00:38:46 Katherine: does that relate to your relationship of rituals? 00:46:21 Juniper | Alchemessence: I have a similar situation - thanks for asking Jodi! 00:51:21 jodigolda: Reacted to "I have a similar sit..." with ❤️ 00:53:22 Jen Gens: I do have a question about container setting and time 01:03:58 Jessica Walker: I’m at a 10 with my clients and others. I’m emotionally attached to their outcomes, even though I cheer them on all the time. I fully get my need to be seen/heard/loved from my husband and from my tennis and dragon boat friends …. this is why I don’t encourage these people to be clients of mine, although I will happily receive client referrals from them 01:04:22 Jessica Walker: *NOT emotionally attached…. 01:04:28 Jessica Dawson: I'm seeing how my listening skills are very inconsistent, depending on the context and also how I am feeling. My fear is that I will lose myself if I fully listen because on the past I have fully sacrificed myself to relationships with others and allowed myself to be completely walked over. So there is a fear I won't be able to enforce my boundaries / or bring it back from fully listening to and hearing that person and value myself equally. 01:04:42 Kristin Jensen: For me primary barriers to support others in being heard and seen and loved are ADHD distractible brain, and not feeling as competent with skills as I want to be as a coach. In personal relationships, it’s more the defensiveness that comes up when I get triggered. 01:07:56 Kimberly: Oh my, I can so relate @Jessica! Thank you for sharing 01:08:57 Jessica Dawson: Reacted to "Oh my, I can so rela..." with 💜 01:09:05 Susan: My primary barrier to deep listening to clients is my insecurity of my skills, I think I start to think of answers or questions that I need to answer next, which of course comes from my desire to do the best for my client, but I need to relax and listen and trust the questions will be there. 01:10:01 Kristin Jensen: Another thing for me with clients and in other relationships, is if they are very talkative/verbal and it’s intense emotionally, I can get flooded with sensory overload (ADHD again) and I start to feel panicked, and this really impairs my ability to listen - there’s too much information for my brain to sift through. 01:10:39 Dawn Urquhart: I was also thinking of the difference between working with clients and this need issue, which doesn’t seem a challenge… But it definitely seems family dynamics are more challenging. Understanding this 1st Principle will really help frame entering a “container” with family relationships for me. Thank you 01:10:54 Katie Vason: Reacted to "I was also thinking ..." with 💜 01:11:54 Dawn Urquhart: Reacted to "Another thing for me..." with 💗 01:12:02 Katie Vason: Replying to "Another thing for me..." I can so relate to this, Kristin! 01:20:43 Jaya Chelani: Replying to "Another thing for me..." Can so relate with it. I too have ADHD and it becomes too much to process at times 01:21:01 Lisa Archer: I don't always get it in real time, but sometimes after client sessions something will come to me like an intuitive hit about what the client said / didn't say 01:21:07 Jaya Chelani: Reacted to "Another thing for me..." with ❤️ 01:22:53 Susan: Reacted to "I don't always get i..." with ❤️ 01:25:37 Jen Medrick: Curiosity killed the cat... The rest of that which is often lost is: Satisfaction brought it back! 01:28:20 Beth Fuller: Reacted to "I don't always get i..." with ❤️ 01:28:55 Nisha Mody (she/her): I’m taking away the importance of a tight container as well as wanting to start a practice about reflecting on my inner wisdom. 01:29:33 Susan Engel: Appreciate the very distinct definition of a container 01:30:22 Juniper | Alchemessence: I need to hop off! Thank you! 01:30:38 Susan: The principles of tight container and tightening up my containers with clients; taking a moment to pray and go inward before each call, Seeing my children as whole and complete and I don’t have to fix them, making sure I make them feel seen and heard and loved! 01:31:29 Beth Fuller: Thank you so much! I'm taking away the principles of listening--especially love the journaling prompt after each session--what is my inner wisdom telling me about this client? 01:31:53 Rosa Zubizarreta: A reminder about the big difference between asking someone what they want to work on — or, asking them, what do you want to walk away with? 01:32:24 Susan: Reacted to "A reminder about the..." with 👍 01:32:24 Jen Medrick: I'm taking away a desire to deepen container (which has always been a priority for me) and to reflect on my own experience and intuition following sessions. I also want to continue to explore Energetics beyond my client sessions - what energy am I bringing to my own life? 01:32:45 Susan: Reacted to "Thank you so much! I..." with 💕 01:34:04 Jessica Walker: Thank you for the validation of how to create and hold a container where much of what you’re saying is already what I’m doing with how I’ve setup my software system. I definitely need to get better at the client “graduation” process and with closing the larger program container in a more elegant way. 01:34:23 Sharon Terzza: inner wisdom, mirrors, the dance, container leakages, speaking from own truth/authenticity and bringing in and acknowledging ritual 01:34:32 Sheila Wolff: I'm taking away the importance of bringing curiosity back! I struggle with this. I can be a very literal, black and white thinker and way too often accept what people say at face value and move on. 01:34:49 Rosa Zubizarreta: Reminder about the value of curiosity as a way to meet resistance… 01:35:46 Katie Vason: this is SO helpful in regards to navigating adhd and relating to it as an asset, thank you all 01:35:59 jodigolda: Reacted to "this is SO helpful i..." with ❤️ 01:36:10 Dawn Urquhart: Reacted to "this is SO helpful i..." with 💗 01:37:49 Dawn Urquhart: Reacted to "Reminder about the v..." with 😍 01:38:05 Lisa Archer: I need to hop off. Thank you so much for today Joanna and everyone on the call. 01:39:00 Rosa Zubizarreta: Reminder about the possibility and need for re-setting containers periodically (or as needed!) 01:39:37 Amy G: Taking away the invaluable elements of creating a safe container, and that they can be reset if needs be! Getting curious and curiouser. Verbalising on the dance between listening to the client and myself was very helpful! It resonates a lot with the real-time happening of sessions. Also love the takeaway of journaling/recording what my inner wisdom might be telling me. Thank you all. 01:39:40 Mika Nakamura: I am taking away the value of pre-framing, the validity of intuitive thoughts/inner wisdom as a coach, the incredible importance of the integrity of a coaching container, and being in tuned with our energetics as one of the most foundational in our integrity as a coach! And I love this 'owning' our wholeness and completeness being discussed at the end too! 01:40:54 Mika Nakamura: Gotta sign off now, but thank you so very much for another incredible session! Looking forward to the next class. Thank you all and have a great week, everyone! 01:40:58 Kavita Rani Arora: I’m taking away a lot of creativity in the way I create my containers that address my uniqueness and neurodivergence as a gift I bring and setting the container to allow my gifts to best emerge in service of client 01:43:14 Dawn Urquhart: Reacted to "I’m taking away a lo..." with 😍 01:43:51 Kavita Rani Arora: I’ve been on a healing sabbatical from my coaching work and this is the perfect segue back into working again. Your container is getting me so excited about recreating my own containers! 01:44:04 Dawn Urquhart: Reacted to "I’ve been on a heali..." with 💗 01:46:59 Dawn Urquhart: I had a coach who did 45 minutes sessions 01:47:05 Kavita Rani Arora: Therapists often do a 50 minute session and call it an hour so they can take clients on the hour 01:47:12 jodigolda: I am going to hop off, thank you all! <3 01:47:24 Susan Hagan: Take-aways: First, I love the idea shared toward the end about using (and enjoying) a curiosity walk, to amplify the wondrous, playful energy of curiosity-- then bring that with me on into the day. Also feeling busted! On how my desire to feel seen/heard, known and loved can be a barrier to being fully present and loving with my client, or any other person. AND, I can be a bit triggered by feeling that, while being present to it in fully accepting way from a sense of whole and completeness. Another piece I'm ready to immediately implement more: consciously listening to my own intuition, while listening to the others. 01:47:26 Jessica Walker: My sessions are 45 min…..give me 15 minutes to wrap the prior client up and get myself reset for the next 01:47:32 Sharon Terzza: Im off thank you for everything today 01:47:34 Katherine: I'm jumping off. thank you everyone! 01:47:35 Kristin Jensen: Thank you!! 01:47:41 Maria Chowdhury: Thank you everyone! My take away is how an imbal