00:05:47 Joanna Lindenbaum (she/her): • The most masterful coaching questions have the ability to do the following: o Create awareness o Access client’s intuition o Promote creativity, brainstorming and problem solving o Empower clients to take responsibility for themselves o Create integrity and commitment o Help client articulate their judgement o Create breakthroughs and new habits o Activate learning o Create connection to self 00:13:27 COACH Nathania S: I feel like I freeze in the moment and don’t know what to ask! 00:13:32 Jennifer: For me often it’s a time thing 00:14:38 Jessica Dawson: I feel the same Nathania. I kind of get lost with what to do then do nothing, even though I might ideally like to ask a question. 00:15:36 Juniper | Alchemessence: I feel like my past trainings really focused on the importance of the practitioner providing value through having the answers. It’s tough to break out of this old mindset! 00:16:38 Nathania S: The other challenge for me is having NO AGENDA. When I ask question, I usually have the “I know the answer” bullshit going on in my ego-mind — and I’m trying to ‘get them somewhere’ which is about ME, and not about THEM! 00:23:14 Agnes: insecurity around how to ask the question that isn`t too polite so the client will not get the point, nor too harsh so the client will feel offended. Also, I find the process of "reverse engineering" what I want to get to in the form of a question challenging. IT`s also the"Agenda" going on I think. 00:27:09 Rosa Zubizarreta: Just hard to find the balance! I really appreciate your emphasis that BOTH are important… offering questions, AND, offering information (in whatever form, including stories and examples…) and, i think that part of what gets me in trouble, is the urge to “overgive”… which in turn comes from not feeling that I am “enough”… 00:37:32 jodigolda: Puts the power in the clients world 00:37:37 Mika: Creating awareness 00:40:04 Helen Wrack-Adams: I’m receiving it as an invitation to be fully present. Present to the client’s choice of words, tone of voice, body language, mood, underlying beliefs, etc. Present with my own intuitive wisdom. An exercise in reading the energy and tuning into what question is going to invite the most expansion in the present moment. 00:40:31 Agnes: it makes me step back a bit and give some space for the opportunity of playing with perspectives and options for ways to move forward. 00:40:43 Jen Medrick: I'm noticing that I want to remind the client that they have choice, not just holding that in my awareness. Including choice to not answer a question as well as how they might answer. This comes back to the collaborative approach and we both have choice intuitively and in the present. 00:41:48 Susan Hagan: I love the questions designed to help clients see their own choice and options. That's so foundational... and the idea that we can save a great logistical tip for LATER. 00:41:58 Victoria Cali: Reacted to "I'm noticing that I ..." with ❤️ 00:43:32 Danielle: Reacted to "Just hard to find th..." with 👍 00:43:37 Danielle: Reacted to "Puts the power in th..." with 👍 00:43:56 Danielle: Reacted to "I’m receiving it as ..." with ❤️ 00:44:44 Amy G: I appreciate how clients choice is rooted in focusing solely (and back) on the client and not on external things. I feel their values and power is held for them in a way that supports an equal playing field too. 00:50:28 Dawn Urquhart: It makes me feel better about not over giving or feeling the need for directing the session 00:50:48 Susan Hagan: Such a great demonstration-- how deeper questioning can impactfully also FOLLOW consulting (not just precede it). 00:51:38 Lisa Archer: Is there the potential that reminding a client they have a choice is a filter and a power over situation? E.g are there times when it's an assumption? 00:52:14 Susan Hagan: Freedom and empowerment. 00:52:28 Maria Chowdhury: I sometimes have a challenge when they don’t have an answer. When I reframe it, and then create space for their own process. Yet inside me, I feel like there is an answer that they just haven’t found it yet and my ego wants them to. 00:57:53 Juniper | Alchemessence: It seems like questions around choice could shine a light on the resistance at play in a client’s life - like opening a whole new cascade of things to look at 00:58:54 Nisha Mody (she/her): “Is that true?” Reminds me of Byron Katie 00:59:46 Victoria Cali: Reacted to "“Is that true?” Remi..." with ❤️ 01:00:21 Jen Medrick: Reacted to "“Is that true?” Remi..." with ❤️ 01:00:29 Susan Hagan: Love that Q, Jen. 01:00:47 Jen Medrick: Reacted to "It seems like questi..." with ❤️ 01:10:57 Maria Chowdhury: Body, heart, mind 01:13:36 Mika: Would it be wrong to ask both of those questions - what can you - what will you - with an intention to co-explore and possibly create awareness around client's readiness? 01:17:49 Bruce | artichokedove.com: Curious about the "Why" question. Sometimes that can come across as judgmental and potentially shaming, if it is not framed correctly. 01:19:58 Jessica Walker: I use “the 5 Reasons Why” tool to help my clients get to their deep emotional reason for wanting to embark on change in their life 01:30:02 Susan: Sorry I have a 2:00, wonderful session!! 01:31:19 Maria Chowdhury: I received from this session is ….that there doesn’t have to end with an action step. And the clients silence and not knowing the answer is a potent “pregnant” pause. My continued stretch is to allow the mystery to unfold. 01:31:38 Danielle: Reacted to "I received from this..." with ❤️ 01:33:07 Juniper | Alchemessence: Do you feel like your clients don’t feel like the session is worthwhile if there’s not a breakthrough? I think this is a big piece for me right now - really feeling into where value comes from 01:37:48 Maria Chowdhury: Thank you everyone! Bye 01:47:18 Rekel Kamigaki: Such an insightful moment - being aware of reference points in the past where in some sessions - being a client with professionals where it wasn’t all that helpful. Thank you for voicing that. It’s an area of my own past that I will more fully explore. 01:49:02 Susan Engel: Hugs 01:49:06 COACH Nathania S: thank you!