00:12:50 Marla Bollak: even computer processors only perform one task at a time. they switch quickly between them. 00:15:16 Victoria Cali: That was helpful - thank you ! 00:16:11 jodigolda: I read all my notes on the plane last week - was a lovely way to review & integrate the material. 00:16:20 Maria Chowdhury: Can you remind us about our off time. When does that start? In our email there was a pre recorded session today. What is that about? 00:16:20 Victoria Cali: Reacted to "Can you remind us ab..." with ❤️ 00:17:42 Jen Medrick: I find reviewing the recordings and taking new notes or pausing to give myself time to digest at my own pace really helpful. 00:23:21 Rosa Zubizarreta: A friend of mine talks about the “need for orientation” and also the “need to be welcomed into being”…. 00:26:12 Kristin Jensen: The balance of masculine/feminine energies - structure and flow 00:28:29 Amy G: Reacted to "A friend of mine tal..." with 💜 00:37:43 Lara Wilde: Reacted to "The balance of mascu..." with ❤️ 00:38:31 Sue Begent: Hi nSharon - yes! Do it at the beginning and then everyone is clear 🙂 <3 00:39:35 Jen Medrick: I'm getting how to set the Energetics even with paperwork, how I hold it matters, and seeing it as part of the expansive and safe container... 00:39:41 Lara Wilde: Joanna, do you also go over these things on a call in case people don’t read all of it or have questions? 00:44:05 Agnes: Setting these foundations is a from of expression of being present for the client and ourselves. It gives transparency and a sense of safety. 00:44:29 Agnes: form I mean... :) 00:49:25 Maria Chowdhury: I’m also interested about how to organize your client files? And everything included in their whole file. 00:51:48 Jen Medrick: Will we talk about setting up programs at some point (not necessarily today)? 00:54:58 Sheila: Changing things. Like I no longer do texting or Messenger for new clients but I am afraid to change that for clients who have been with me a while. 00:55:01 Mika: I would say time (i.e., session ending time) especially when a client is emotionally sharing her struggles/feelings etc. 00:55:16 Lisa Archer: I've struggled at end of client containers when clients want to continue, not setting new expectations / container for the next round of coaching. The impact has been loose containers, not being able to go deep anymore and frustration on my part (that I also sense in client too) 00:55:23 Marla Bollak: when i get an unexpected request and have to think about it. i want to give them an answer right away, and wind up thinking out loud and sound like a lunatic. in these cases, i do tend to set the boundary in not the best place. 00:55:23 Sheila: ok thank you 00:55:30 Bruce: With one client in particular Sticking with one topic- during a session while holding the clients bigger agenda, 00:55:37 Jen Medrick: The biggest challenge for me is really holding the time container, particularly when big things arise. Oddly, this varies by client. People who are more structured are easier to hold the time with … others it's harder. 00:55:51 jodigolda: I have one client right now that we were to do 2 sessions / month but because of their travel and a big move —it’s been more like 1x a month … they are way passed their agreed 5-month container. the impact is that the work /container feels drawn out. I also could have renewed her 2 months age rather than wondering if its going to happen 00:55:52 Kristin Jensen: I tend to go long instead of end on time. 00:56:01 Sue Begent: Ending on time when I know a client needs more (I schedule longer sessions because of this! - I coach in groups 00:58:39 Jennifer Jones: I'm concerned about taking the client's challenges "home with me," which could affect my mental space. 01:03:39 Sue Begent: OMG I can remember time when I did all of these! 01:03:56 Lara Wilde: I’m scared of not being loved but of also not going to heaven if I’m not completely selfless (from my childhood religion). 01:04:07 Marla Bollak: Reacted to "OMG I can remember ..." with ❤️ 01:04:10 Sue Begent: 0h yes….that can be big 01:04:40 lightandgracedesign@gmail.com: This is so powerful. 01:04:50 Brie: Yes scared of being yelled at or unreasonable conflict conversations 01:05:26 Victoria Cali: Reacted to "Yes scared of being ..." with ❤️ 01:05:35 lightandgracedesign@gmail.com: So much is clicking and making sense around my family systems from this cal.l 01:06:07 Amy G: All of these resonating, I see myself in all of these. The fear of someone else's anger and my own has struck a cord. 01:06:47 Victoria Cali: ahha… Being vague as a form of protection... 01:06:50 Sheila: is there a particular book or resource you recommend around the family systems/family dynamics piece? I feel like I've heard of one but don't remember the name. 01:08:12 Kristin Jensen: The book, No Bad Parts, was written by the man who invented/discovered IFS (internal family systems). It’s wonderful. The audio book has him taking you through a number of meditations to interact with internal parts. 01:08:15 Katherine: When you say adding sessions is this for free? 01:08:44 Amy G: Reacted to "The book, No Bad Par..." with 👍🏻 01:09:02 Sheila: Reacted to "The book, No Bad Par..." with ❤️ 01:09:29 Kristin Jensen: Reacted to "I’m scared of not be..." with 🥲 01:09:38 Sheila: Replying to "The book, No Bad Par..." thanks!! 01:09:43 Kristin Jensen: Reacted to "thanks!!" with ❤️ 01:09:59 Marla Bollak: Reacted to "The book, No Bad Par..." with 👍🏼 01:10:06 Lara Wilde: Reacted to "The book, No Bad Par..." with ❤️ 01:12:15 Danielle: Reacted to "The book, No Bad Par..." with ❤️ 01:12:31 Katherine: Cool thanks 01:13:52 Rosa Zubizarreta: Ooh, super important!!! 01:18:48 Bruce: A reminder at the beginning of the session telling the client that I have a hard stop at …..also lettting them know we have 5 minutes till the end of the session....you do a great job modeling that on our calls Joanna 01:19:09 Sheila: Reacted to "A reminder at the be..." with 👍 01:19:16 Amy G: Reacted to "A reminder at the be..." with 👍🏻 01:19:34 Rosa Zubizarreta: Reacted to "A reminder at the be..." with 👍 01:20:09 Lara Wilde: Can you keep the questions in the recording? 01:22:04 jodigolda: Q: do (ideally) you take payment on the enrollment call? 01:29:17 Sue Begent: Love that 01:29:28 Bruce: Curious about the pre/post session questionnaire. Do you find clients like this? is there resistance? What % actually fill it out, do they send it to you before the next session? 01:30:29 Jaya Chelani: NTD 01:31:19 Sue Begent: Client care is part of the container - love this 01:31:42 Amy G: Reacted to "Client care is part ..." with 💜 01:36:26 Lisa Archer: Thanks for today - lots of really helpful info. I have to hop off now. 01:37:07 jodigolda: Firm & loving 01:38:46 Mika: I long for the day all these closing phrases come out as skillfully and easily as they do from you, Joanna! 01:39:59 Sue Begent: Yes me too 🙂 01:40:34 Rosa Zubizarreta: Reacted to "Client care is part ..." with 💜 01:41:51 Sue Begent: Or goals 01:45:16 Amy G: Jen, beautiful share and relate to a lot of what you shared around boundaries and stepping up! Thank you💜 01:45:26 Jen Medrick: Reacted to "Jen, beautiful share..." with ❤️ 01:47:12 Sue Begent: Sometimes it \s the right thing to do 01:47:35 Sue Begent: Yes absolutely 01:47:41 Marla Bollak: Reacted to "Sometimes it \s the ..." with 👍🏼 01:48:04 Sue Begent: You should always be paid for the work you have done thouhg 01:48:51 Marla Bollak: Reacted to "You should always be..." with 👍🏼 01:50:42 Marla Bollak: Replying to "Curious about the pr..." i don’t like them at all. i would fill them out, but feel that it was a waste of my time. 01:51:39 Maria Chowdhury: Thank you everyone! 01:54:55 jodigolda: Have fun Kristin! 01:55:04 Kristin Jensen: Replying to "Have fun Kristin!" Thank you! 01:55:05 Mika: Thank you! 01:55:06 Sharon Terzza: thanks